Here’s some positivity for headmates in inside/in-system relationships!
Building trust and relationships is an important part of system life, and it’s normal to foster platonic, romantic, and other kinds of bonds between headmates! This post is for system members who are in close, positive relationships!
💓 Shoutout to headmates who have just started dating, getting to know each other better, or taking the next step in their relationship!
💘 Shoutout to headmates who are married or have been partnered for years!
💗 Shoutout to headmates in inner polycules or queerplatonic relationships!
💕 Shoutout to systems who manage romantic relationships both inside and outside their system!
💖 Shoutout to headmates who set up dates for each other and do little things to make their headmate partners feel cherished and loved!
💝 Shoutout to headmates who struggle to interpret their feelings regarding other system members!
💞 Shoutout to headmates who get shy, bashful, or butterflies when they’re around the system members they love!
💓 Shoutout to headmates and systems with complex, interconnected relationships!
💘 Shoutout to systems whose inner relationships can’t really be understood by singlets!
💗 Shoutout to headmates who are exclusively (whether sexually or romantically) interested in others inside their system!
💖 Shoutout to headmates who have dealt with others attempting to invalidate their relationship, whether inside the system or people outside!
Within the vast spectrum of plurality is a diverse array of relationships and experiences between headmates! There is nothing wrong or weird about pursuing platonic, romantic, or sexual relationships with the other headmates in your system. As long as you are respecting each other’s boundaries, actively communicating, and keeping each other’s best interests at heart, in-system relationships can be a strengthening and rewarding experience!
We hope y’all can continue to learn and grow together, and that your relationships will inspire you to take care of each other! Remember we care about y’all and we wish you the very best in all that you do. Rest assured your in-system relationship is beautiful, worthy of maintenance, and an amazing part of plural life!
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