If they don’t accept your help, that’s a sign that they are addicted to the negative feelings. They have no desire to make it better, they just love the misery of the story. Love them through it. Don’t expend your energy, just wait for them to get tired of feeling this way. Then be there to lend a hand. That hole they are digging is pretty deep. They will need someone up top to pull them up. #beentherebefore #unhappiness #dramaseekers #helpinghand #addictedtofeelinglikecrap #negativefeelings (at Irvine, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bu5npLlH6nW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=6kn6vlzux1ov













