#abelsim

they dont get to make me feel bad about food i like because they dont like it and make fun of me for being "picky" (even if I'm not) when they just hurt my feelings because they dislike quoina

they dont get to make fun of my broken speech or my aac regardless of whether they speak fine or not

they dont get to make fun of me for not driving just because its safe for them to have a license and they didn't have any problems learning

they don't get to make fun of my reading challenges/abilities even when I say I like to read

they dont get to make fun of the fact that I'm skinny/small/weak because I have a hard time with food sometimes (they also dont get to make fun of fat people for their weight whether its impacted by disability or not)

they dont get to make fun of how I cant bench press my own bodyweight when they are twice my size and full of testosterone and not disabled

they dont get to make fun of how I stim

they dont get to make fun of my inability to do certain tasks/activities/etc

I fucking hate you guys because you completely ignore disabled people complaining about anything and only care about us if it gets you off

Maybe you ASK those disabled people about it, instead of being a fucking abelist Nazi asshole and talking about us like we don’t have a right to life, let alone an opinion.

Disabled people are not a burden. We are not a curse or a disease. We are not something that needs to be fixed.

ADHD does this to me and is one more fucking person says “well we’re all a little ADHD sometimes” I’ll probably go feral because yeah, sure everyone forgets to send emails but does everyone have to keep their email empty 100% of the time so that if they open their email and see shit in there they know that’s stuff they have to deal with? Does everyone have strict rules regarding when they can/should delete emails that if they fail to follow will cause them professional and academic shortfalls, does EVERYONE have to note EVERY FUCKING THING THEY NEED TO DO before they leave their desk lest they come back and forget to finish a step in the project they’re working on? I don’t think so.

people with ADHD, are still disabled.

Any mental disability? Still disabled.

Any disability that isn’t visible still means, 

Disabled.

Just because you can’t see someone’s disability, or they’re mentally disabled, doesn’t mean they’re not “actual disabled people uwu” or whatever that means

Physically and Mentally Disabled people should be looking after each other and working together instead of fighting