Who the hell came up with the term "pick me girl"? I hate the whole trend with a burning passion. It just seems like an excuse to hate gender non conforming women or generally all kinds women that you don't really like. Also stop fucking assuming that everything a woman does is tied to a desire to attract or impress a man.
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Since it seems I wonāt get my answers elsewhere...
Iām working on the AMMC sequel (FAWTFT/Newtina) right now and Iām trying to include a little more of the Jewishness of the Goldstein sisters. But I need a bit of help here... hence a few questions:
Would it be okay for Jacob to keep his bakery running during Passover? (Since heās not Jewish, but his wife and children are and they all live in the flat above it)
Is a Passover Seder held every night or just the night before the holiday starts? If so, what does a ānormalā Passover dinner (say day 4/5) look like?
Any advise on writing Jewish people attenting an Easter celebration during Passover? (Itās a family thing)
Any special wellwishes I could/should include when Queenie finds out Tina is pregnant?
Yeah... thatās just for one chapter. Iām not planning on detailing all of it, but I feel I need to know this stuff to continue writing those parts in a way that makes sense (and doesnāt get me ranted at again!)
Help would be appreciated... Iāve been stuck on this for two fucking days now.
Okay so Iāve been reading like, shit load, of Batman fanfic (because why would you not read Batman and Batman fanfic?), and I noticed a few things when coming across Jasonās character interpretations by the fans, which are uncountable. But the interpretation i want to address today is the really crazy, totally not canon and completely opposing to everything the character was in the comic.
Not that Iām against you for writing something that is really OOC (like itās cool, my first few fics were like that! I get it!), but then sometimes it just really gets on my nerves when they really abuse their powers as writers to just create a character to their liking and slap a well known characterās name on it to get reads. Itās just really really cringey! And especially for Jasonās character (as Iāve been reading these fics of him) who, i found, was basically butchered.Ā
Jason Toddās character is pretty transparent in the comic, as Iāve seen. If he loves or hates something, he says it, unless itās daddy problems then, well⦠blame Bruce because itās always Bruceās fault that his kids canāt talk about their feelings (Just KIDDING! He basically planned for 2 years to break it to Bruce that heās a horrible dad, which I call dedication and obsession). Jason is honestly a really decent guy, in case you havenāt read RHATO N52 and Rebirth, then you should- especiallyĀ Rebirth which we clearly see this! And thennnnnnn, i walk into a fic with a decent summary and I see already Jasonās being a total dickhead to a girl LIKE PLEASE READ RHATO N52 AND TELL ME HOW THE HELL HE IS A DICKHEAD TO THAT GIRL HE WAS SORT OF DATING? LIke please explain to me how he is such a douchebag to that girl?Or to that kid on the street? Or to Bizarro (REBIRTH ISSUE 5ish READ IT!)Ā
There are those R rated fics with elements of the character but then being completely⦠not Jason? Itās basically everything that the fandom loves about him (the dark humour, sarcasm and also the empathyĀ and careĀ he has for others,etc) removed entirely from him. Like okay, dirty talk, fine! Graphics stuff? Okay! And then heās doing something completely out of character (like idk shooting a kid, for example) and I just really donāt understand why you would keep his background story when youāre just gonna kill his personality in the writing? If you want to do that, just write another character altogether. I get that the appeal for OC is really low for websites like FFN, but seriously, why bother? At least create character development if youre gonna do that, but some people just straight up go into āJason laughed at the girl, āSlut, youāre asking for it.ā (and then cue bad nsfw and me cringing).
So to sum it up! Please use the characters with rational choices. Please donāt slap their face on your OC. Write them and twist them, but do it with some logic so people donāt end up just clicking out of your story 2 lines in.Ā
Hereās the thing. As long as we have straight people in positions of power over queer stories, those queer stories arenāt going to be satisfying. I canāt even begin to nutshell what it is to be queer, there is so much to it, so much culture, so much history, so much trauma. Itās an entirely different way of moving through the world. Our rites of passage, our benchmarks and our goals are so far removed from those of the straight world. To live life as an unapologetically queer person is to live bravely, to live in constant danger, always having to assert and re-assert your identity in any way you can in the face of daily micro and macro aggressions, repeatedly defending your very existence and validity. Youāre constantly on your guard, because you never know whoās on your side. Our whole entire frame of reference, culturally and emotionally, is completely different to that of a straight person. We behave differently in relationships. To not have experienced any of that, to not exist within the intricacies of what it is to not be straight, and to then try to write a queer story is about as effective as trying to weave yoghurt - it simply doesnāt work. Thatās why queer fans of queer media are repeatedly disappointed. Put queer writers in charge of queer stories.
It baffles me to no end when people yell and scream as if all organically sourced materials are "unsustainable" while they're busy wearing plastic fucking Nike sneakers that release enough microplastics to kill half a goddamn ecosystem. Cheap t-shirts covered in memes/pop culture are made from cotton grown in India using absolutely absurd amounts of pesticides and are even more heavily processed when turned into dyed/printed fabric.
Of course, yes, the current meat/leather industry complex is fucking disgusting and needs to be yeeted to oblivion, preferably since yesterday. But animals sadly don't live forever. And hide/leather is ridiculously long-lasting if you care for it - a pair of good leather shoes can last for most of your life.
Support ethically and organically sourced materials. It's through shit like that we might unfuck the planet. Also second hand. That shit's affordable too.
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in the past year iāve finally come to terms with the fact that yes i am truly bi
that sounds weird, ātruly biā
but basically, i would always minimalise my attraction towards girls to others and to myself, just laughing off saying āhahah yeah she cute or whatever but like just like visuallyā no sweetie you wanted her number we all know that
especially this past 2-3 months iām like truly grasping the fact that most of my crushes and kisses and like long term attractions are girls( i never talk to them about anyone cause people outside of my friendgroup are hella homophobic/biphobic)
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idk what this short rant even was but just it feels nice not to fight my brain as much anymore.
It does suck that if i end up dating a gal (yeehaw to that) i canāt ever say it to my parents until basically iām sure iām gonna marry her. (homophobic parents woop wooooop)
next up on the list of trying to understand myself is : am i demisexual or do i just have trauma towards intimacy
I was just looking up posts about trans athletes hoping to find relatable stuff but all I found was transphobes talking about trans women stealing "real" womens awards and people arguing with them. I just wanted to find something like "I hate having to be in the wrong locker room" or "I hate all this discourse around what I like to do" or "I hate having to misgender myself to compete" or "why are the only water fountains in the locker rooms i thought i could avoid this" just urg.
I see some posts occasionally talking about it being transphobic to not want to date trans people, and I think thatās way over simplifying it.
If youāre not comfortable with dick or vagina or what ever, thatās fine. Thatās your preference. Physical intamacy is important to some people. No one should make you feel obligated to maybe someday be intimate with someone you know you wonāt be fully comfortable with, itās not fair to you or them.
BUT IF YOU ARE GROSS ABOUT IT, I WILL FIND YOU, AND I WILL DUNK YOUR HEAD IN A PUBLIC TOILET WHERE IT BELONGS. If you make a snide comment, pretend it was a joke, go āew vagina/dick š¤¢ā, or disrespect their identity, you are literal human garbage.
There is a line between having a preference and being straight up transphobic. You need to know where it is and not be a nasty person.
Edit: also I have my eye on you, people who avoid friendly interactions with trans people and pretend itās āpreference.ā You are nasty too. Iām literally only talking about not wanting romantic/physical intimacy in the above paragraphs. If youāre not friends with someone because theyāre trans, youāre pretty fuckin gross, too.