Real talk,
I see some posts occasionally talking about it being transphobic to not want to date trans people, and I think that’s way over simplifying it.
If you’re not comfortable with dick or vagina or what ever, that’s fine. That’s your preference. Physical intamacy is important to some people. No one should make you feel obligated to maybe someday be intimate with someone you know you won’t be fully comfortable with, it’s not fair to you or them.
BUT IF YOU ARE GROSS ABOUT IT, I WILL FIND YOU, AND I WILL DUNK YOUR HEAD IN A PUBLIC TOILET WHERE IT BELONGS. If you make a snide comment, pretend it was a joke, go “ew vagina/dick 🤢”, or disrespect their identity, you are literal human garbage.
There is a line between having a preference and being straight up transphobic. You need to know where it is and not be a nasty person.
Edit: also I have my eye on you, people who avoid friendly interactions with trans people and pretend it’s “preference.” You are nasty too. I’m literally only talking about not wanting romantic/physical intimacy in the above paragraphs. If you’re not friends with someone because they’re trans, you’re pretty fuckin gross, too.
