i love date everything writers keep on keepin on but can we PLEASE stop using afab/amab as a shorthand for a reader's genitals. just says what the reader has. in an effort to be inclusive youre being exclusive and intersexist. the assumption that an afab person has a vagina or an amab person has a dick is transphobic, and completely ignores people who are neither afab/amab or reject those terms.
i mean no ill the terms are frustratingly normalised in the fanfic community i get that but please make an effort it means a lot ā”















