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sort of rant about the transharmful community as someone who's been in it for more than a year by now
it's not all about sex. point blank, there can be a lot more too it, there are asexual transharmfuls, there are people who genuinely just get this dysphoria or use the identity to cope with and manage violent urges in a safer way.
for me it does include some sexual bits but for the most part, it's not sexual for me, i have a few transharmful identities
transcultleader, trismanipulator, transtheif, and transabuser (doesn't just apply to romantic relationships, sometimes i just have dysphoria and a want to hurt people that are under me)
also PLEASE TAG YOUR NSFT....PLEASE, i'm so tired of seeing untagged nsft weither its sexual text posts or actual untagged gore....please tag it or at least put it under cut if you dont know how
Hello, this is Satou, and I will be making this crystal clear. We are chronologically an adult. If you'd like to be our friend and you are chronologically a minor, that is perfectly fine.
What is not okay is assuming that we will be romantic or in a conabuse or harmful with anyone who is chronologically underage. Even if you are just a year or two younger than us, we are not comfortable with that. At all. Do not scare away potential friends of ours. Especially when it was made very clear that a friendship was going to stay perfectly platonic.
Also. Also. Very big fucking thing here! If a chrono adult is asking you to keep things platonic, just to stay friends, don't fucking try to make shit romantic. Don't say "you'll catch them lacking." Don't fucking try to scare away their friends. Don't try to fucking break an adults boundaries that they are putting in place for both you and their safety holy fucking shit. This will be reblogged on mine's and tommy's blogs.
If you are pulling that shit to try to get into a conabuse relationship, guess what? You are taking the consent out of consensual abxse. (u)
I really wish we could go back to when transharmful didn't just mean dom. I wish we could go back to when transharmed didn't just mean sub. I hate that transharmful and transharmed "conabuse" relationships are now just dom and sub relationships. I wish transharmful and transharmed weren't just kink titles like they are now.
Transharmed tag: Literal chronological minors posting explicit stuff and tagging it mapbait but in leetspeak so tumblr doesn’t filter it. I could report them. I know I should report them. But why fucking bother? I’ve done it before and they always come back from termination and nothing ever changes and why the fuck bother. I wound up pacing around my room. Why the fuck does this trigger me like that?
Where am I supposed to go, huh?
Just for kicks I decided to check out “dissoharmed” and “desirharmed” tags. Yes, yes, I know, identities that are basically just “transharmed but don’t worry we’re Morally Pure™️”. Dissoharmed was mostly stupid discourse about whether dissoharmful labels should be coined because what if it “promotes Evil Thoughts” or some shit. And “desirharmed” was even more dead than transtrauma. Not to mention that I hate the “desire/yearn/want” phrasing in the context of my transharmed feelings. It’s not that simple. It’s not. I don’t want it. It’s… it’s not…
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Btw, i am so willing to split alters for people to get obsessive and possessive with, instill them with any memories and emotions you’d want
And the process is so simple
✨ Self traumatizing ✨, fuck myself up with triggering content until I know I’ll crash out and then full my brain with a character by watching sources and content of that character
It’s so fucking fun to me and I know I’ll never get better because of it
Are you comfortable explaining how programming works?
Sure, no worries — that doesn't personally bother me whatsoever.
(I believe this might be long, and I'd like to be mindful of people who don't want to scroll past a wall of text. Therefore, everything will be under the Cut.)
First of all, asumming you don't know anything and starting off with the complete bases for anyone who might not know, programming is usually associated with the acronym RAMCOA. Ritual Abuse; Mind Control; Organized Abuse.
It's pretty straightforward about the techniques used for programming.
Ritual Abuse refers to, well, actions and rites performed in a ritual with the victim. Due to the "strong aura" those usually tend to leave in children's minds they might be used to assign cues, meanings & etc..
An example of this; If an handler were to associate lambs with Sacrifices & later, during mind controlling, assign said child with lamb motif. The child will believe it's meant to be a sacrifice and may be more docile.
They're mostly used by religious cults.
Mind Control is pretty straight forward — there are however SO many techniques out there I absolutely cannot cover even a quarter of them (but here is a semi-extensive source on the matter if you're interested at all).
They may use hypnosis, torture, drugs, etc.. One of the key factors for successful mind control is dissociation — makes the mind more malleable & vulnerable.
Organized Abuse refers to cults, s€x trafficking, etc.. A lot of handlers will be part of organized rings with tons of followers / helpers.
Not all 3 of these are needed to perform programming — you could have only experienced one and still be a valid RAMCOA system. Though Mind Control is most vastly used.
So, basically — programming works not only by traumatizing a child so hard their identity fragments & developing amnesia BUT also by worsening this condition on purpose and weaponizing it against them (whether the handler is even aware of it being DID or not).
It programs the mind into doing what the persecutor desires, like a robot. I guess that instead of a series of codes it's really just a series of traumatic events.
I've been seeing some hate towards people who identify as cisharmful, and on one hand I do understand, of course most people don't want to interact with someone who is going to be non-consensually harmful, but I personally identify with that label not because I would ever non-consensually harm anyone, but because it is something I have done in the past but have grown past and no longer morally agree with. And now that I identify with something aligning with a transharmful identity, it feels validating to my identity to call myself cisharmful. If that makes sense at all.
Maybe it would be more accurate/correct to call myself transharmful or trisharmful though. I haven't really decided yet. Anyone who has any thoughts on this are welcome to respond :]
This!! My system has a lot of alters that identify as "cis" harmful because of various reasons. Whether those reasons are source/xeno memories, or based on things they've done in the past that they've grown from. It feels more accurate and validating to say cis or tris harmful, for some of them
We personally use the terms transharmful and transharmed because, in a way, it feels like we're getting that control back from our trauma and all that.
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An attraction label that can be described as being so in love with someone that it feels as though it’s tearing you apart. This love is so intense that you cannot even bear the feeling of them interacting with anyone else but you.
Inspired by lunentity's lovirium + lunentity helped me write the definition
description : a term for those whose love is obsessive , volatile , intense , && possibly even overwhelming . this love may be extremely important or intrinsic to oneself && identity , but it is not required . intended for beings with BPD , but anyone may use , regardless of neurodivergency ( or lack thereof ) .
taglist :: @radiomogai …
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With Trump looking on track to win, I just want to give some hope for people right now.
The Senate is Republican, but two years in the future a third of the Senate will be reelected, meaning Trump has at most 2 years to work with an agreeable Senate
Whether or not Trump goes through with project 2025 or not, this will most definitely be our last term with him
If he doesn't do what he promised, his voter base will get mad they didn't get what they voted for
If he does do what he promised, his voter base will get mad when they realise tariffs=higher costs and when their taxes don't decrease
People WILL protest in their states and nationally and either a) Trump listens or b) Trump ignores it and people become more disillusioned with him
There is no way Trump will do something that can't be reversible or managed by the later President
If Trump supporters do become disillusioned, we could see a blue midterm
1/2 of Congress is needed to pass a bill
Just take a breath. It isn't going to be great, but we can and will survive.
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Before radqueer community (and also being an anti but not wanting to be verbal being curious about radqueers) ;
Why am I acting like this? Why do I want this stuff to happen to me? Why is everyone so avoidant of a community? Why do I enjoy this stuff happening to me? I feel so problematic for liking this-
After looking into the community (not an anti anymore, almost the whole sub system is radqueer + some people in the main sys are transID) ;
Oh hey, I'm traumatized and also transharmed, I like being harmed (non-physically) because I feel like my trauma isn't valid enough :3 I don't really care about other people's opinions anymore cause I'm having fun and also I found genuinely cool people here and also cause the anti community was. like. way to overly aggressive!
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