Oct 3, 2018
All predatory men I’ve ever met in GSAs are the exact same person. He’s “queer” and “polyamorous” but for some reason only dates “afabs” way younger than him (and gets pissed when they take “polyamory” to mean anything else but “I as the man can have sex with whoever I want but if you do it you’re breaking the boundaries of our relationship”).
Ironically enough he says he doesn’t like labels and “y’all means all” and what about the Dr. Martens and plethora of “this is what a feminist looks like” buttons paired with odd thrift shop finds (because he’s SO quirky like hipster but original!) like his Trusty Jacket with Metal Spikes and his filthy house full of tattered tapestries and dead house plants and the smell of subpar weed?
#am I resonating with anyone??#maybe it's just the town I live in but they're All Like That#and then when they finally DO get called out for being the shitty emotionally abusive#rapey pieces of shit they are#a million little gremlins come out of the woodworks to defend them#and eventually some half truths get out and he's all... I've made mistakes but we're all growing as people aren't we#and it starts all over again six months later#I know this is extremely specific and that's because I've witnessed it about four times.
