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Finding a solid SD is hard. Especially for me since I have a lot of time constraints. You have to play the interview game a lot in this stage and it sucks, but it doesn’t have to! I look for 3 things in a profile in order to determine if a POT is worthy of escalation to off-site communication:

1. Pics. Are they recent? Am I attracted to them?

2. Is their profile filled out and well-written? Doesn’t have to be a novel, but this is where you can tell the MOST about someone before you engage. Even if a guy is my type and interested, if his profile gives away that he doesn’t know what he’s doing/hasn’t done this before or that there’s a reason we wouldn’t vibe- I’m out.

Me seeing they have no pics or profile info:

Unfortunately SD BF and I are on the outs. Not totally broken up but not together. It’s been hard but it’s also gotten me back out there dating and I just missed the sugar life tbh.

I’m off the scene. Have been for about a year. Now I’m just part spoiled gf part exec boss lady. *shrug*

BF started as a SD but we quickly knew it was gonna be more than that. He’s honestly like a 20/10 fuck. Actual best I’ve ever had far and away, and biggest too. Honestly couldn’t be happier and not bothered by a thing.

Lmk what you think/if you have one and what it’s like/etc.