You are a really a smart and intellectual person but why did you choose this path as a sex worker though I mean why sell your body to someone else? I think you can do something greater than that. No hate though I respect you sis but Iâm just kinda curious why you chose this path when you are so smart and all
I was with you until you used that pivotal word, âbutâ, and now I have to give an answer that you probably wonât like.
Contrary to popular belief, many sexworkers are highly educated and intellectual individuals. Itâs almost as if weâre regular human beings who are contributing and functioning members of society. Shocking, I know, but I digress.
Let me correct you. I sell a service, an experience, and my time; NOT my body or my very being.
Since you know my life so well; what, pray tell, do you think I should be doing? Tell me about myself so I can take some notes.
Since you want to be so technical, letâs get into it; shall we?
When someone pays for sex, theyâre buying sex. They donât suddenly gain ownership of a womanâs body any more than any other man who sleeps with any other woman does; but if thatâs the case by your logic, then I sure do own a few powerful men.
If I sleep with someone, I donât âgive awayâ my body. Another shock, my body is no oneâs but my own, no matter who I have sex with; I retain the right to do what I like with it, and to give or refuse consent as I wish.
Talking about selling a body rather than a service implies a permanent state of affairs. It leads to the belief that consenting to sex on one occasion means that consent is automatic from then on. If you havenât caught on yet, then let me spoon-feed you and let you know that is a very bad thing to believe. I am autonomous when it comes to my body and my being.
So let me flip the script and ask you. Does your body and being belong to the person/people that youâve engaged with?
And if youâre still under the misguided belief that I âsell myselfâ, then I urge you to analyze and determine whether you at any point in your life have ever participated in capitalism. Iâll make it easy for you and tell you that the answer is yes, and since the answer is yes, then congratulations! Youâve sold yourself, too.
Essentially what youâve done is equated the services I provide to my actual being, which means youâre implying thatâs all Iâm worth. Believe me when I say that sexwork will get me to where I WANT to be and is my proverbial elevator up to the top. Iâm sorry that you canât understand that. But thatâs okay.
Your question may have been well-intended, but Iâm too far gone these days to really give much of a flying fuck about what anyone â especially a stranger on the internet â thinks, so Iâm sure someone else will find it quite offensive.
With that said, thank you for your insult under the guise of a compliment.