30 day guide for those looking to get started with some light SPH. Remember to check in frequently with your partner and practice aftercare often. SPH is often accompanied with sexual denial so you will notice some of that below.

Comment in passing about his little guy, shrimpy, clitty or tiny soldier.

Smile and wiggle your pinky at him.

Hold your thumb and forefinger close together. 🤏

Emphasize and make eye contact when him anytime you use words like “little”, “small” and “tiny”.

Cup his flaccid penis in your hand and ask him if it gets bigger. When it starts to get hard, tell him you were hoping for more.

When you are shopping in the grocery store, pick up some baby carrots and with a sexy wink, ask him who it reminds him of.

Ask him to masturbate and then tell him to stop playing with his penis like it is a real dick. He should only need to use tweezers or two fingers.

Sex tonight? I don’t think you will be able to please me with that. Why don’t you please me with your tongue instead and then we can talk.

I can’t even feel you inside me.

The first time I saw you hard I thought you were still soft.

Call it pathetic or tell him that he needs to pee like a girl from now on.

This might be a good time to try out that pink chastity cage that you’ve been considering.

Take a label or clothing sticker that says small and put it on his crotch or his penis.

Find small household things to compare it with.

Measure it with a measuring tape while soft and call him by that measurement. How are you today Mr. 7cm?

Express disappointment after lovemaking. It sure would have been nice if it was able to fill me up.

Express disappointment during lovemaking. Is it in? Let me know when it is in.

Ask him to sit across the room while you pleasure yourself. Tell him that you wish he had a big dick like your toy. If he had a normal sized dick, he certainly wouldn’t be a spectator.

Have him wear a strap-on dildo and fuck you with a “real penis”.

Tie a bow around it.

Compare it side by side with a dildo, decide on the dildo and explain that you are going to pick the one that is more satisfying. He can watch.

Ask him to wear a pair of your panties, giggle and say something about not being able to see a bulge.

Compare it to sizes of past partners or perceived penis sizes of his friends. Do you think you are bigger than Tucker? How about Mike?

Ask him to walk around the house nude and make frequent comments about how cute his penis is.

Penis sleeves & extenders are amazing. When he is using one, give him plenty of praise about how big he is, how satisfied you are and how full you feel.

Have him use your toy on you instead of his penis “so you can actually feel it”.

Take a picture of his soft penis beside a ruler and keep it in your phone. Remind him it is there from time to time and perhaps threaten to show it to a friend.

Look at sites like Reddit’s rate my cock subreddit with him and talk about how nice the other cocks are. A great feedback method is to hold his and feel how aroused he becomes.

For bonus points, have him submit his cock online for comments and “constructive feedback”.