Feast Of The Moon

“Most of the time, we think that love means just accepting the other person as they are. Who among us has not learned the hard way that we cannot change someone, mold them and make them into the ideal beloved we might want them to be. Yet when we commit to true love, we are committed to being changed, to being acted upon by the beloved in a way that enables us to be more fully self-actualized. This commitment to change is chosen. It happens by mutual agreement. Again and again in conversations the most common vision of true love I have heard shared was one that declared it to be ‘unconditional.’ True love is unconditional, but to truly flourish it requires an ongoing commitment to constructive struggle and change.”

“He saw her dark side and said that black was his favorite colour”

“Sometimes we just want to feel we’re not alone.”

Waiting doesn't make change

“I’m not everything I want to be but I’m more than I was, and I’m still learning”

Some Truths about Rejection

“Promise me not to hide yourself when you’re in pain, it’s unfair that we laughed together but you cried alone”

“Your journey will be much lighter and easier if you don’t carry your past with you.”

In Spanish, French and Italian, "decisions" are something you "take" like a train that leads you somewhere new, whereas in English you "make" them like little pieces of your own creation. But in German you "meet" them, like friends. Aren't languages beautiful?

Ouch!