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Is it because I’m a stripper? Because that’s a legal profession

I think it just boils down to thinking and going all into the job without being distracted. You really have to think about if this is what you want. Regardless of your future plans, if you get murdered even if you’re like a dentist at that point, they’ll call you a “former stripper” like you’ll be that forever. Regardless of how feel about ourselves and our profession there will always be people who use “stripper” as a derogatory term. You probably can’t in the current political climate be in politics. Hell they’ve fired teachers for being a stripper in their past (only women tho. Male stripper turned teacher equals worlds sexiest teacher apparently 😒) So just really consider if you can handle that

Then, if you can just go all in. Get the outfits. Get all the stripper shoes. Buy more makeup. Get really good at dressing. Do pole classes. Or learn in your free time at the club. Do your nails. Hair. Lashes. Every shift. Jump in. Talk to every customer. Find common ground and flirt. Relish in how hot you are while making the conversation about them. It’s an exciting job. It’s so fun. Really get into it. Just don’t get distracted by men who say they can help you make more (aka pimps) don’t get distracted with drugs or over drinking. (A shot if you’re nervous is one thing but if you haaave to be intoxicated to do the job then it’s not for you)

Well. As long as management isn’t on your ass, You could make deals. So when someone’s like “what’s a dance go for?” You can say one basic dance is 5, 15 minutes for x, and 30 minutes for y. Giving a small discount or ripping them off depending on your mood and if they’re drunk. Or just go straight to the deal prices and don’t even mention the 5$ ones. But if that’s not welcome in your club maybe try a different one nearby that doesn’t require a license? Go like an hour-2 outside the city if you have to.

My club is also pretty straight forward in terms of “one dance is 20” and that’s it so I’m not sure if I’d be the best help here

A friend of mine says she’s love to come up with me... if it weren’t for her boyfriend. It’s often an issue of trust. If he trusts that you’re faithful and stripping is just a job in the entertainment field then what’s the problem? Especially if the both of you are tight on money. It shouldn’t be a last resort but the money is good. Especially when you start.

Different club different rules. At mine you have to pay to not do it. Although some nights it’s dead and you end up not going on anyway

And honestly focusing on one customer at a time can make it less intimidating to be up there. I love the attention on stage but if that’s not your gig really try to make it your own. If you’re good with lap dancing, maybe try just staying on the ground and making eye contact with someone and move your hips and ass like you’re doing a dance?

Maybe?

I have no idea. I don’t move around much but I will say being able to contact owners and managers through the internet is a huge asset. Email, Facebook, LinkedIn, or dm a club and ask about the hiring process.

Well in my experience, unless you’re a class act actress, your persona is you. Honing in on it can be a lil tricky though so some questions to think about in developing your presence could be,

What is it about you that makes you desirable. Why are men attracted to you. Why should they be attracted to you. What type of men are you noticing you’re attracting? Are they white collar or blue collar? Are they educated? What attributes do you notice in the customers that tend to vibe with you.

Are you presenting dominantly or submissively? Are you smiling a lot or are you focused? Glasses or no? Hiding your tum or showing off your body. Do you think you’re cute? Or sexy? Or endearing? Intimidating? A little awkward? Lean into traits you find appealing in yourself

I have a working theory on the types of strippers essentially working down to four categories but that’s a whole separate post