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there’s still time to figure out who you are and to find yourself. it’s okay to be confused right now or not fully confident in who you are as a person.

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I love this fandom so much 🙏🏻🧡
Not my work - don’t want to tag the OP to avoid hate but they did an amazing job and I hope they post it as a reel soon ❤️
All the references here that scream louder than if Tabi just came out and said I love Jiyong 😭🫠
Instead we have a flower road with his orange haired girlfriend (that represents the fans according to Top but we’re allowed to extrapolate I believe 🤪) and flower bouquet with huge daisies at the front 😂🤭
Viết cho sự tiếc thương (On grief)
/04.07.2026/
Mình đã nghĩ, ngày mình rời khỏi gia đình mình để sống tự lập sẽ là ngày mình rất hạnh phúc. Ngày mình biết mình được sang Mỹ sẽ là ngày cuộc đời mình bước ra khỏi những trang xám buồn tẻ.
Nhưng mình đã nhầm.
Kể từ ngày biết tin mình sẽ đi Mỹ, tâm trí mình chạy đi khắp mọi ngả. Chạy về quá khứ để tận hưởng những thú vui mình đã chưa được nếm trọn. Chạy đến tương lai để lo lắng cho những diễn biến, những mối quan hệ mà mình không kiểm soát được. Chạy sâu vào mớ bòng bong trong lòng mình, không biết mình nên muốn gì, nên phấn đấu vì điều gì trên hành trình tiếp theo. Nếu có vui, hay có hào quang ánh sáng nào, thì có lẽ cũng chỉ là một vài khoảnh khắc hiếm hoi.
Khi chạm đất và trở về với thực tại, mình vẫn đang ở đây, trong căn nhà mình được sinh ra và lớn lên trong 25 năm qua. Vẫn là những người thân quen trong gia đình, những người mình cùng ăn, cùng ngủ, cùng trò chuyện, cùng đồng hành qua những chuyển biến từ nhỏ đến lớn trong 25 năm qua. Nỗi đau chia ly và sự tiếc thương lại trào dâng. Có lẽ, tâm trí mình chạy đi khắp mọi nơi là để né tránh những cảm xúc tiêu mãi vẫn chưa xong của thì hiện tại.
Đau vì phải xa gia đình thì mình mới được sống và phát triển trọn vẹn hơn. Tiếc vì phải để lại những danh tính, bản thể cũ để bước tiếp trên hành trình làm người. Rối vì chưa biết phải làm gì với quá khứ và gia đình. Liệu 25 năm qua có phải hoàn toàn là một vở kịch, một illusion mà mình cần rũ bỏ? Bao nhiêu phần trong đó đem lại ý nghĩa và hạnh phúc thực sự, để mình còn nắm giữ và nuôi dưỡng tiếp? Những câu hỏi mình tưởng đã sáng rõ, giờ mới nhận ra sự chắc chắn ấy chỉ là ảo ảnh.
Tiếc thương là một cảm xúc khó chịu. Nó làm tâm trí mình giằng xé giữa những phiên bản, những "vũ trụ" khác nhau. Nó làm lung lay những lựa chọn ban đầu đã sáng tỏ, làm yếu đi sự tập trung vốn đã hữu hạn. Mình tự hỏi, đến bao giờ tiếc thương mới kết thúc, để nhường chỗ cho sự chấp nhận và thả lỏng?
A gift from my life-long teacher Adam Grant
/28.06.2026/
*This comes from his social media post on 27.06.2026
"There's more to the youth mental health crisis than digital devices. A major culprit is accelerating perfectionism. 307 studies, 83k students over 35 years. Young adults feel growing pressure to be flawless, and it's a risk factor for depression and anxiety.
Perfectionism started rising a generation before smartphones. Modern tech might be an amplifier, but it isn't the root cause. Perfectionism stems from unreasonably demanding expectations and unduly harsh criticism. It is stoked by the parents who punish kids for getting an A-, the teachers who embarrass students for getting a math problem wrong, and the coaches who berate athletes for missing a shot.
Some basic messages to counter it:
Mistakes don't make you a failure. They make you a learner.
Achievements are not a symbol of your worth. They're a snapshot of your performance.
Beating yourself up doesn't make you stronger; it leaves you bruised.
Don't say anything to yourself that you wouldn't say to a good friend.
It's impossible to please everyone. Decide whose opinions matter to you - and whose don't.
Character is not revealed by how many setbacks you face. It's forged by how you face them.
The objective is not to be the best; it's to get better. The person you're competing with is your past self, and the bar you're setting is for your future self.
Our biggest regrets aren't actions - they are inactions. Don't set yourself up to wish you'd taken more chances.
Healthy goals include 2 targets: an aspirational result and an acceptable outcome. If you fall anywhere between them, you haven't failed.
Success is not a straight line. It's a squiggly line"
Hellooo :D First of all, sorry for disturbing you and my English is not that good I guess, but it's always on my mind when I see it and I wanted to ask: What do you think about the cover of Übermensch? Ji-yong has his feet right there, and maybe it's related to Seung-hyun's fetish? Because there are many songs for Seung-hyun.. and maybe that too?
And while I'm at it, are you still doing the analysis for Stendal Syndrome and Be solid?
Btw I LOVEEEE your work. I had so much fun reading everything.
Hiya, lovely! 💕 As always, reminder to everyone that a) a message in my inbox is never a disturbance to me, I love interacting with you guys, and b) the fact that you can speak more than one language is so intensely cool and wonderful and you should never apologise for any English errors, it's always going to be way better than I can do in another language!
Ooohhhh the Übermensch cover.... alright, let's talk about it!

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To rest or not to rest
/24.06.2026/
Wednesday night. 3 Pre-MBA workshops. About 1.5 months left until my MBA starts. An uncertain future that obliges me to feel FOMO all the time. Guilt if I want to rest early.
But my mind throws an error sign. Too stimulating to stay with the fight. I want to rest but my mind refuses to win over that desire. Then I remember, 4 years ago, on a bench at FTU, feeling lost after a senior year class, I watched this narrative short film. For years, I used to visit this channel frequently, seeking peace and wisdom. Then one day, I just stopped.
Karl, in a Groundhog Day time loop, found himself living in 2 different worlds if he made a choice over another. The third time entering the loop, Karl saw through the nature of his choice dilemma and told the old man he would make his own choice this time. When asked how he dealt with the possibility of making the wrong one, his wisdom came out.
"I spent the last week trying to figure out which choice was right, but maybe there isn't a right choice. Maybe there's just a choice. Maybe some decisions aren't hard because there is a better option, but because there isn't one. This whole time I've been worried about regretting my choice by choosing the wrong thing, as if I could even know what I'm regretting. Regret would mean there was a right choice and I made the wrong one, but how could there be a wrong one? The only thing I can know is that on the other side of the decision, I'll be there. And if I'm there, no matter what path I go, there'll always be something to love, and there'll always be something to dread. The only thing to regret would be not making the decision for myself. If anyone picks it, if I let anyone pick it, if I leave it to chance, it'll never be mine, or at least, it won't feel like it. I guess I'll do my best, pick one, and move on. It won't be chance, it won't be uncertainty. It'll be something in between, and it'll be the right choice."
So, which are you going to choose?
I'll just rest tonight. And damn it, it's just one trivial decision.
And if I decide to drive the fandom mad and make Stendhal syndrome about Gtop who’s gonna stop me? No one! I do what I want on the internet that I pay for myself. I still kept it light over there cuz they can be crazy sometimes and education is best done step by step 🤪
ok so i've been following gtop for a while but i'm still a bit confused about the timeline of their relationship, if it's not too much trouble could you sort of explain (briefly, of course) their relationship through the years, like at what points were they together, broken up, etc?
Thank God you said briefly, Rachel was soooo ready to start pestering me to pull up every single receipt I had and make a complete timeline (since I promised her I'd do it one day... but I also promised to watch Good Day lmfao). I made one when I just got out of hiatus, but turned reblogging off cuz I knew it wouldn't be a good one (and I was right) since I'd just come back to the fandom after a WHILE. So here's me tryna set a better timeline for you :)) I wouldn't be adding receipts since there's just soooo much, but I'll mention what I'm using as proof and/or referencing (and most of it is on my blog... tho I can't ask you to go through it since it's wayyyyyyy too messy, if you reallyyyy wanna see something I'll look through my blog/other blogs/Instagram for you, feel free to ask! :D (I'll ofc also lowkey be plagiarising my old post, it's not that bad.. but don't read it please please please please-)). I'll add asterisks around some things for more "headcanony" thoughts (but ofc they'll be based on observations).
A better person
Recently, I turned my back on my family many times. For no reason, I just found them annoying and not helping my career at all. I was not proud of myself for feeling that way; the only thing I could do was to be honest with my feelings.
That mindset didn't help my career at all. I started to fear human overall, thinking they had no reason to help me out or accept me. I tried to approach everything by myself, which didn't lead anywhere due to my mental blockage and lack of information. I was in deep despair, and this was still before MBA.
Then it happened that certain people came into my life. My fellow Vietnamese UNC sister. A social gathering among UNC students. A consulting meeting that guided me on networking. And most especially, my aunt from the hometown just showed up and stayed with us for 2 days. Going in, I didn't feel delighted at all, both confused and bothered as I was still lost about my future direction. Unexpectedly, these people showed me love, support, and helpful advice. More than anything, they gave me hope and the reason to trust people and life.
When my aunt told me she was here to support us, we didn't need to greet her off, and she would return near the day of my flight, I wanted to cry. Finally, I understood what my background meant to me and my future. Whatever happens on my journey, I want to keep being humble and never forget to care for other people, to create value for my community. Never forget to leave the place better than when I arrive. With love and light!
Same top, same...🫠💘

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heyyy you once said that Ji looked like he wanted to jump off a cliff when Seunghyun talked about his pre-debut girlfriend, do you have footage of that? Also any more jealous gd moments you can think of?
I turned into a giggling gaggling gaggle of geese answering this ask, because like, yes GTOP is real and proving they're real comes first and foremost, but also, I loooooove being delusional 🤩🤩🤩🤩 Also I adoreeee how Jiyong is cut out of the camera so often in these scenes cuz his reaction isn't entertaining lmfao. I do have to say, they don't seem to get jealous really easily, which is normal for a healthy couple. But there are delulu moments :D
[072521] T.O.P’s Instagram updates
Mark Grotjahn (born 1968) is an American painter best known for abstract work and bold geometric paintings.
He is also known for being one of Seunghyun’s friends. He supported gtop as well
Shipping GTOP Isn't Just For Fans - It's For Friends and Family Too!
A definitive list of all the people in Jiyong and Seunghyun's lives who have made subtle but clear nods of support towards them as a couple over the years, because maybe we're all just old man yaoi fetishists together
Part 1 because there are just THAT MANY people to talk about
Yapping about family stuff
/18.06.2026/
It's the same old problem for any young people about to leave their family behind to go independent, especially after a long time of unpacking those history baggages or so-called generational trauma. How should I define my relationship with my family from now on?
Like many people, I felt that great sense of responsibility that I had to save my family from the shit we went through in the past. I could do that for myself, so I could do the same for my family. The truth is that I cannot change people who don't want to change. In my case, most of the people in my family with whom I interact on a daily basis are all in their 60s. They are 2-3 generations older than me, born in a time of war and famine in a developing country. Of course, they don't want to change, so me wanting to do so will just lead to more pain and despair.
Watching this podcast from Mark Manson made me more relieved in that at least I was not the only one having these messes of emotions towards family. Turned out, many people dealt with that feeling of shame, guilt, and confusion when it came to confrontational conversations, outgrowing their upbringing, and saving their families. The podcast also gave me the answers to all of these conundrums. It's not that we only have 2 extreme choices of sticking with our family or leaving them behind forever. We can choose our boundaries and the level of interactions we want to protect our well-being. And we really don't have to address every elephant in the room; some baggage is better off being ignored. Knowing that just releases lots of stress for me, and I hope it could be the same for Asian women growing up in multi-generational families.
I am a delulu kpop Stan but it's very easy to listen to Ubermensch thinking the whole album is directed at one person

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Untitled, 17 Jun
Tôi đã đạt đến 1 ngưỡng nhận thức để nhận ra đâu mới là thứ quan trọng bậc nhất đối với tôi. Nếu tôi chỉ có 1 cuộc đời, tôi muốn làm gì với nó? Tôi muốn rằng mỗi ngày thức dậy, tôi được tạo ra 1 điều gì đó. Làm việc hàng ngày. Tập trung làm và cống hiến. Đặt cả trái tim và công sức vào công việc đó. Để đến lúc nghỉ ngơi, tôi không phải hối hận điều gì về ngày hôm ấy. Nếu tôi có duyên được gặp 1 ai đó, tôi muốn dành toàn bộ thời gian và tâm trí cho người đó, vào đúng thời điểm đó. Sau đó mối quan hệ có phát triển hay không, tôi không thể kiểm soát được. Nhưng chính thời điểm này, khi đang ngồi đối diện người kia, họ là cả thế giới đối với tôi. Đó là cách tôi muốn sống. 25 tuổi, tôi đã dần nhận ra những mục tiêu mà tôi muốn đạt được, vì thế tôi cũng muốn mình deliberate hơn với thời gian và sự tập trung của mình. Mặc cho nhiều người ngoài kia có những đời sống, những thành tích đáng nể trên mạng xã hội, nếu chúng ta không có duyên để biết nhau, tôi muốn nhẹ nhàng buông ra khỏi tâm trí của mình để nhường chỗ cho những con người, những sự sáng tạo đến từ cuộc đời của tôi. Và tôi phải tin vào chính mình, vào cách sống tôi đã chọn. Hành trình của tôi sẽ mang đến nhiều con người khác, không phải những con người trên mạng xã hội kia, và nó cũng sẽ tuyệt vời chẳng kém gì những bài đăng hào nhoáng đó. Chỉ là tôi chọn trải nghiệm trọn vẹn những khoảnh khắc này mà không viết, không đăng gì trên mạng xã hội. Cuối cùng, điều còn lại quan trọng nhất chỉ là đến cuối cùng, những gì tôi tạo ra trên hành trình này, từ nghiên cứu, nghệ thuật, kinh doanh, cho đến mối quan hệ, sẽ mang đến một sức nặng, một cái chất đậm sâu mà tôi mong muốn. Và tôi sẽ cố gắng ghi chép, tạo ra 1 thứ nghệ thuật gì đó từ những trải nghiệm trọn vẹn của bản thân. Không phải để wow hay để làm hài lòng 1 đám đông khó tính hay 1 tổ chức danh tiếng, mà là để cho chính tôi, cho chính những người thầy, những nhà tư tưởng lớn đã thôi thúc tôi phải sống như thế này!
Rare beautiful morning
/17.06.2026/
As I woke up at 10AM, after a long night of consulting sessions, the sun shone through the big window of my room. The temperature felt right in a room that got air conditioned 2 hours ago.
At that exact moment, I felt so peaceful and whole that I didn't find any need to work or to sleep. Just lying there, doing nothing, and enjoying the surrounding environment. What an utterly strange and beautiful feeling, one I hardly felt in the last 5 years!