PICK AN AUSTEN HERO: WHAT WILL BE YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE’S FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU?
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Disclaimer: This is a general tarot reading, so take what resonates. If a message doesn’t, it can mean you picked the wrong pile OR that none of these messages are gonna resonate with you.
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cards: four of swords, six of cups, the star, five of swords, the magician, seven of wands
You might be younger than them, not too much I don’t think, maybe anywhere from 1 to 5 years, although I think five years might be a stretch. I think a happy middle would be 3 years, so they might notice that. Alternatively, they might notice that you are good with kids (this is a general reading, so take what applies), so maybe, when they see you for the first time, you’ll be surrounded by kids – I see a celebration of some sort, like a wedding celebrations, and there’s going to be a lot of little girls in dresses surrounding you. They are also going to notice that, perhaps when you are not surrounded by the children, that you are very quiet, almost taciturn, and they might find you cold and distant at first, but then, when you smile, they think you are very beautiful, it’s like a wave of calmness surrounds you. You might be blocking some people’s advances, I do see a social gathering for this group, so maybe you are an introvert who doesn’t like to be talked to by a lot of people, so they will definitely notice THAT and how uncomfortable you seem to be. They’ll also believe you are some kind of manifestation for them, like they imagined you and there you were all of a sudden. They kind of see you as a princess of Ice, beautiful, but distant. I assume they are going to approach you either way, if you are their future spouse, but they will wait for the perfect moment to do so. The main thing I see, though, is them looking at you from afar, until they finally find an opportunity to approach you. They think you might reject them otherwise. They give me Col. Brandon vibes (even though this is the Tilney group), probably because of the way they are respectful towards Marianne, they never overstep.
Some other things your spouse is gonna notice about you when you first meet:
“They slipped briskly into an intimacy from which they never recovered” (F. Scott Fitzgerald) – maybe you two are going to talk and feel immediately connected.
Type-9 (enneagram) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
ESFP (MBTI) – same as above
ESTJ (MBTI) – same as above
Doctor – you might actually be a doctor, but it could also be your countenance, how you behave yourself, your posture.
songs that your future spouse would listen to and think about you: Don’t Fear The Reaper - Blue Oyster Cult, Trawlerman’s Song - Vashti Bunyan, The Boy With The Arab Strap - Belle and Sebastian
cards: three of cups, eight of swords, three of swords, the empress, ace of pentacles, the hierophant
You and this person might meet at an intimate gathering, like at someone’s house and you two will talk a lot. Their first impression, from that, will be that you are very heartbroken, group 2. Very sad, but that otherwise you are very jovial, very warm. I definitely see that they think you have nothing to be sad about – not in a dismissive way, but in a way in which they believe you have everything, they believe you are beautiful, and extroverted and FUN, and still you’re so heartbroken and lost. It’s like you put this image of yourself forward, which is not a lie, but deep down there’s another truth hidden, and they’re gonna see that right away. They might believe that God put you in their path, in a way like group 1, but more prominent here. They might believe you are, quite literally, a gift from God, like your paths were SUPPOSED to cross and that this is fated. They also believe that you have everything to succeed – maybe, in the middle of your long talk, you’re gonna talk about career paths, and they’ll believe that you’re quite literally everything you need to succeed. They’ll believe you are very charismatic and bold in a lot of ways, even though you feel lost and alone. They’ll want to put a stop to that as much as they can, so they’ll keep you company for as long as you like, even longer than that, just because they loved you right away. It’s very love at first sight, or, at the very least, INTEREST at first sight, like they notice there’s SOMETHING about you right away, something they can’t quite place, but that attracts them nonetheless. Very cute energy, very cute indeed. I see a lot of smiles here.
some other things your spouse is gonna notice about you when you first meet:
Practical (Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus vibes)
Horror Movies (you might quite enjoy horror movies, this might be one of the topics of discussion)
Type-9 (enneagram) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
INFP (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
“Come a little closer and you’ll see, things are not always what they seem to be” - Cage the Elephant
You might meet on a Monday
You might meet on a Tuesday
You might have been born on the month of June
songs that your future spouse would listen to and think about you: Scotty Doesn’t Know - Lustra (for this one I feel like they believe you might LIKE this song. It’s from the movie Eurotrip. I think they feel you might find it funny), Sugar Daddy - Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Scrawny - Wallows
cards: knight of pentacles, death, ace of pentacles, the chariot, six of swords, page of cups
It’s like they waited a long time for you to show up. You might be a goth, I know that’s an OUT THERE interpretation for the Death card… Or not that much, actually, but I definitely saw someone is a goth – OR likes Death a lot. Someone who might be a witch who uses animal bones in their practice and honors the dead. Alternatively, you might be a big change from what they are accostumed to liking usually, like someone also just gave them a gift (on all groups I got this message, are y'all’s future spouses ok? Just checking). You might have just moved countries or cities and they’ll notice that, that you’re not from around there, that you’re new. They’ll also notice you’re very kind and loving – maybe you hug and kiss people a lot, in a sweet way. You’re very giving of yourself. You two might be opposites, you and your future spouse, quite like black and white (there could be an interracial element here as well). It’s like you two are from different worlds, but so complimentary in a way, and they’ll see that as well, right away. They’ll be quite enchanted about you, but in a subtle way – they won’t want to put all their cards on the table just yet. They’ll want to get to know you more, which they believe it won’t be too difficult – you seem pretty open, and they like that. They’ll think you’re just magical.
some other things your spouse is gonna notice about you when you first meet:
All-Stars (you might be wearing those when you first meet)
Bullying (as in, you might have suffered that)
Glasses (I saw sunglasses for some of you, round and big)
ENTJ (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
INFP (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
“I’m sad, but I’m laughing. I’m brave, but I’m chicken shit” (Alanis Morissette, Hand in my Pocket)
You might have been born in the month of March
songs that your future spouse would listen to and think about you: Cheek to Cheek - Fred Astaire, Dammit - Blink 182, Adam’s Song - Blink 182
cards: the chariot, the magician, the queen of pentacles, six of swords, knight of wands, four of cups
I see self-made vibes here. All these groups have had similar themes amongst them and this is no different, so if you felt attracted to any of the others, feel free to check them out. I definitely see you are or might be a person who has conquered all you have on your own, and your future spouse will DEFINITELY notice that when they first meet you. It’s like they’ll know things about you beforehand which ISN’T FAIR considering this is a FIRST impression reading, but it’s like you’ll be known for certain things – like you came from the gutter and climbed the social ladder to where you are now, against all odds. It reminds me of that Wilde quote “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars”. They’ll believe you’re their soulmate, and they’ll be most likely right, but it’s almost as if they’ll ignore it in a way – like they don’t wanna know that, they don’t wanna acknowledge that you are their soulmate. Maybe you two come from different places in life or even different countries, and since you are so above them, they don’t even wanna think about you and them as a possible item. When they finally meet you face to face, then they’ll realize it’s destiny – beautiful, amazing, incredible destiny that brought you together. They want to give you the world, no expectations attached. It’s like they would understand if you didn’t like them back, even expect it. They truly think you’re the bee’s knees.
some other things your spouse is gonna notice about you when you first meet:
What’s Mine is Ours – you might be quite generous
ENTJ (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
ENTP (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
ENFP (MBTI) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
Type-4 (Enneagram) – this doesn’t have to be your actual type, it’s just what they pick up from you that day.
30+ (you might be over 30 years old, but doesn’t have to be)
songs that your future spouse would listen to and think about you: Come Monday Night - God Help The Girl, Silver Rocket - Sonic Youth, Heaven or Las Vegas - Cocteau Twins
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