Fake Caca Berry Tea

to call us incompetent and say that if you didn’t clean up after us no one would is absolutely ridiculous. i guarantee you, if you never touched the dishes belonging to other people, they would be gone before the end of the day. if you sent a text saying you’re home and ready to get rid of the rug and deep clean, we would’ve come home and helped so it would not have taken you 3 hours. if we are weaponizing incompetence, you are weaponizing the fallacies of victimhood you have constructed based on the reality you have created by doing other peoples dishes, not even giving others the opportunity to do them ourselves, and failing to communicate any of these concerns or expectations BEFORE you take it upon yourself to do it for us and then complain about it. use your words. that’s what adults do. we shouldn’t have ti hold your hand and tell u to clean ur cats litter and clean ur cats dried vomit that sat there for a week, or put away ur iced tea pitcher that was out for a week, and even with some of these things being genuinely degrading to the communal space, we understand you’re human and were gone and have many responsibilities. sometimes, leaving some items out is harmless and we all have given grace to others. you pick and choose where your priorities lie. you want the shoes to be in a straight line. i think mitsi deserves to have clean litter. you don’t want dishes in the sink. i don’t want a dishwasher full of smelly gunky dishes left for weeks. you don’t want to see my stuff on the couch. i think one vacuum swipe doesn’t make the carpet full of stains, germs, and a years worth of buildup clean to walk on before getting into bed. people have different ideas of “clean”. we all know we want to vacuum, sweep, mop, remove trash, and wipe counters. that’s the extent of the conversations we’d had in the past.