i wish you the best of luck btw. if you even care.

Tender Man 🫂

BEN Clowned 🤡

Smile Dog 😁

Do you think that type of plastic surgery makes people less attractive?

FUCKKKKKKKKKKK AHHHHHUUUGHHHHHHH ITS SOOOO OVER MY LIFE IS FUCKING OVERRRRR

i didnt even know what to fucking SAY TO THAT it was the last thing i ever thought i would hear but noooooo!!!!!!!! he asked if id respond so i fucking LET HIM DOWN GENTLY I GUESS???? i literally dont have the ability to reciprocate this or comprehend what reciprocating it would feel like because I DONT FEEL FUCKING ATTRACTION!!!!!!!!!!!! And i didnt necessarily expect him to know that— i dont use labels irl other than "queer" because i dont want to deal with the backlash that comes with existing as an aromantic person. But NOW im thinking i should have fucking used the labels from the jump!!!!! I guess it's not enough that I've never had a partner in all the time he's known me and dont express interest in people beyond EXTREMELY obvious jokes that he understood to be jokes. IT'S NEVER ENOUGH TO JUST BE AROMANTIC YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT SO SO CLEAR AND EVEN THEN, IT NEVER TRULY FEELS LIKE ANYONE BELIEVES YOU!!!!

people always say that internet spaces are americanised because the users are majority americans.

and i do always wonder how much of that is "there are actually a majority of usamericans" and how much is "usamerican cultural markers are a default for many online spaces, and non usamericans are often indistinguishable from usamericans unless you're actively looking".

so here's an incredibly unscientific poll reblog for reach or whatever