Sometimes on topic...

It felt different- it had a silver quietness over it, a sadness. That kind we sometimes find ourselves putting on cold places far away, not here. That cold, poor north-ness. A kind of vulnerability.

My favorite coffee shop was much more crowded than most days today. The tea I had was wonderful, and I got to make someone like me smile.

I think you're wonderful too. No matter what anyone else says.

Apparently they think I'm transmasc

If you want a good classical western name, Ancient Greek names are a good place to start. Many old names have alternate spellings in the various languages that adopted them over the centuries

Also, keep in mind how the name might be shortened for nicknames. The more nicknames a name has, the more each relationship with your friends/family can be personalized :)

I’m less versed in Chinese names but all of the pronunciations of Xia sound nice

If you want a good classical western name, Ancient Greek names are a good place to start. Many old names have alternate spellings in the various languages that adopted them over the centuries

Also, keep in mind how the name might be shortened for nicknames. The more nicknames a name has, the more each relationship with your friends/family can be personalized :)