Quoi Musings

[Image: typography art. A bunch of the words 'sensual' (in blue) and 'sexual' (in green) overlap each other until you can't tell them apart. Around this are the same words except colored black and with question marks. End description.]

Quoisexual Typography Art!

[Image: typography art. A bunch of the words 'romantic' (in blue) and 'platonic' (in green) overlap each other until you can't tell them apart. Around this are the same words except colored grey and with question marks. End description.]

Quoiromantic Typography Art!

[Image: the Spiderman mirror meme where two of them point at each other. Leftmost Spiderman is called "Quoisexuality" and the rightmost one is called "Me not labeling the sexuality I disidentify with" End description.]

We exchanged contact info so that makes us friends right?

Only meet up regularly cuz of club activity but we friends yeah?

Same interests = friends?

How do people level up from acquaintainces to friends, what's the cheat code

We haven't seen or talked to each other in ages and you still think we're friends/are we still friends??

??? Is it weird to call my teachers friends??

By irrelevant I mean seriously irrelevant. Like, I don't even identify as quoix most of the time. I disidentify with sexuality so much that actively labeling it, even as quoix, makes me uncomfortable.

My posts about confusion over attractions aren't meant to invalidate the differences between them, that other people do perceive. I don't mean to imply that a romantic relationship is basically friendship, or that there's no difference between platonic and queerplatonic attraction. I'm aware there's a difference; I just don't fully comprehend it. So I express my confusion through memes like that 'hanging out and giving each other nicknames' one.