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My posts about confusion over attractions aren't meant to invalidate the differences between them, that other people do perceive. I don't mean to imply that a romantic relationship is basically friendship, or that there's no difference between platonic and queerplatonic attraction. I'm aware there's a difference; I just don't fully comprehend it. So I express my confusion through memes like that 'hanging out and giving each other nicknames' one.

By irrelevant I mean seriously irrelevant. Like, I don't even identify as quoix most of the time. I disidentify with sexuality so much that actively labeling it, even as quoix, makes me uncomfortable.

You've heard of ace

You've heard of quoiro

Now get ready for quoix

Brief intro to me, woo. You can call me Skiro, he/him. This is my quoi sideblog, specifically about my quoiromantic n quoisexual musings (though shoutout to quoigendered people). I've only recently taken up the quoisexual label while still IDing as aromantic. In my eagerness I started this blog quq

Summary of my experience:

- I'm generally detached from romance, mainly because I largely associate it with dating (which weirds me out). I haven't dated nor am I inclined to, which is why I still ID as aromantic. Still, I question wtf romantic attraction is a lot, especially in tandem with platonic attraction.

- I am maddeningly confused with sexual attraction. Identifying as quoisexual helps me accept that confusion for what it is - a blurry, elusive mess.

- This is important because for the longest time I was ok-but-not-really-ok with having a labeless sexuality, or at least a sexuality I didn't actively label. No labels really fit me. That was until I rediscovered quoisexuality. Finally I found an identity that could concretely describe my confused musings. An identity that could anchor me in certain confusion.