I was just a boy, you see

I would rather stab myself in the eye than apologise for that thing that I definitely did

Mlm and nlm with personality disorders deserve love, care, and support. You're a valuable part of our community and I'm glad we have you

People with trauma do not have to be palatable to be supported. They’re allowed to be scared, to be angry or depressed, because of the trauma they went through. Not every symptom of a disorder can be chalked up to things we already perfectly understand; trauma survivors can develop personality disorders, dissociative disorders, and other things that need just as much support and recognition as more well known ones. The emotions they experience because of trauma can be hard for them to grapple with, intense, and frightening, and they should never have to go through those things alone.

People with low/no empathy and people with hyper empathy have solidarity in that we both hate people who use their empathy as a weapon against others, or to make themselves seem like they're morally above everyone else. People with hyper empathy are our allies; people who weaponize empathy and place it above everyone else to the point of directly hurting mentally ill people are not.