i was doin' too much on main

It's more commonly talked about in bdsm spaces as subdrop, but you can drop as a dom or even just after vanilla sex or masturbation, especially if it was more intense than you normally experience.

A drop happens when you've been building up a lot of those feel-good chemicals in your brain during sex, then suddenly the sex is over and your brain overcompensates in trying to rebalance. You might feel depressed, anxious, regretful, ashamed. It can happen immediately after or even a few days after. This can happen even if you're normally a very sex-positive person.

It isn't post-nut clarity! You're either dealing with internalized shame towards sex in general or you're having a temporary chemical imbalance. Maybe even both! Pamper yourself after. Forgive yourself. The thoughts you're having in that moment aren't necessarily rational ones.

cierra

shot by me

girl it’s like 90 degrees outside, you write the caption

it's gonna be different for every girl but for me ...

make sure she's in the most comfortable position possible

introduce other sensations .. my butch likes to grab and claw at me and press down on my bladder and i reeeeallly like that (but also listen to her if she needs you to pull back the sensations a little. i know i get overstimmed (/neg) kinda easily sometimes)

let her get lost in it for a while. sometimes it just takes time and persistence

let her fuck your face with itttt let her wrap her legs around your head and grind up against your tongue

use a vibrator on her !! having a vibrator on my clit that whole time made it so euphoric

Im a bunny! And my dog is in the bath and when he gets back hes gonna let me fuck him silly. I hope he barks and whines. Im gonna