SolarEmerald

The social use of ‘girl’ as a de-facto slur if used to refer to someone deemed male is misogynistic because it explicitly asserts that girls are less than boys, and it is also transmisogynistic because the implicit meaning that wanting to be a girl should be seen as shameful and deviant

ok there’s been enough reblogs from enough people on enough various posts of mine that now i need to stand up for the bitches who don’t fuck of the world. people aren’t writing bad smut because of a lack of having sex. they are writing it because a lot of people have very poor visualization skills and forget halfway through what position characters are supposed to be in, or don’t understand what makes a word a good or bad choice, or can’t create compelling dynamics. i promise that even the sexually inactive, by virtue of also existing within the human form, would know that if you’re behind someone you can’t lick their nipple. and i promise that the frequently sexually active are equally prone to using the word “mewled.” i can pretty much guarantee that having a lot of sex and writing good sex scenes are unrelated. do you think your favorite horror authors are cutting people up in their basements. do you think your favorite food critics are michelin chefs. do you think the people blocking cool combat scenes in movies are routinely getting into cage fights. no they just understand how to utilize tone, pacing, momentum, and the tools of film direction, while keeping action tied to character. like believe it or not this is simply a skill like everything else. idk i always think that that point of view shows a lack of understanding of what makes a sex scene work. it removes the craft of it in a way i find short-sighted. i think people are confused about the reason teenagers are writing bad sex scenes. it’s not because they’re not fucking, it’s because they are young and haven’t had the years to hone their writing craft the way someone older has.

Was watching yet another ddlc let's play and I thought huh I'm really relating to Sayori this time too wonder what that's about. Girl.... It's the depression.... Why do you keep expecting it to magically go away come on now......

Seeing a million people rant about transfem Kris being exorsexist or erasing nonbinary people and “we don’t need to assume an agab for them!!!” and. I understand why people are defensive over not reducing a nonbinary character to a binary gender! But I didn’t see any of this when 90% of people were drawing them with a binder, or pigtails and dresses as a child, or having periods, or. What if we want to talk about a different childhood experience!!! They can be boxed in by masculinity without being a girl!!!

oh man. i just realized. do you think susie's disregarding her suspicions of kris because she's terrified of becoming the person she was in the jail cells of king's castle again. because she's terrified she'll lose control.

anyone else miss vs. susie. i miss vs. susie.