Candyfloofer

Of where YES sexuality of all kinds in, yk, sexual manners, are EXTREMELY important to people and spaces like tumblr and pedi are some of the only ones that exist where you can be that much of a freak and it not be the end of the world (because genuinely, a lot of spaces are not catered or even safe for that)

On the other hand, for other radqueers who either aren't *as* sexual or just not in the mood for that or any other which way, it can feel suffocating when the space is FULL of things they either don't care about, personally get squicked out by, or are just generally repulsed by sexual things for whatever reason

Now the truth is, both people who post a lot of sexual things need to tag their things more, you folks have a HORRIBLE time remembering that your personal blog tags that tell your fans and so on, what kinda wacky stuff you'll post this time are *not* the same tags that let everyone else know. The general community should not have block your specific tags when it's something as easy as a cw or tw tag, it would be good even for your simps when you bring up topics that trigger them, yes, even more than you intend to.

And on the other side, a LOT of you need to deconstruct your sex negativity AND anti-kink and paramisic bullshit you guys keep doing, both sides have managed to make ALL sides of the Aspectrum feel uncomfortable. I say that FIRMLY as an aromantic person where it keeps feeling like those who dislike the sexual nature of others (and even some of the horny blogs) forget that aromantic people exist, or the fact that paras ARE in fact sexual in nature for many people!

Asexual people? Feel uncomfortable, aromantic people? Completely ignored. God FORBID aplatonic or afamilial

Anyways, this IS a case where you have to hold hands and figure your shit out. We can frolic and so on, but only when you all can figure out how to respect each other at the bare minimum, and unpack yourself

If you're alter is Japanese and headspace they should be allowed to identify as Japanese And etc I don't understand why it's normalized to let alters go through dysphoria or discomfort in the body that they're in because if they don't identify as something that they're not (like having to identify as white and a white body) it's a bad thing.

how does one be “radically normal” when the “normal” is widely accepted as anti queer in a large majority of places around the world? why remove the queer?

how can radnormal be a safe space for ex-radqueer members if you are straight up harassing and telling us to die on the daily?

you can’t call us all predators and rapists just to turn around after using these terms and claim you are ‘safe’ for victims…

Reminder in your activism to include women. Not just queer women, not just women of color, not just disabled women. All women. Your activism should include a white, blonde haired, blue eyed, middle aged cishet woman as well.

The USA still has laws and systemic standards in place towards the oppression of women. And that's in the west. That's where most of you live. That's where most of your friends live.

Why the fuck aren't any of you fighting for women the way you fight for gay trans men? Why do you all continue to use misogynistic language and push gender inequality in a community that is supposed to be equal?

I have gynephobia and I still interact with more women than most of you "radqueers" that only interact and fight for people you can sleep with. You guys still view equality as transactional and it shows.

GUNSHOT !!!!

NEONAZIS DNI !!!!!! NONCON ABUSERS DNI !!!!!!! BIGOTS DNI !!!!!!

TransEatingBurger

A flag for beings who identify as/desire to be eating a burger

we NEED to make it so they cannot find traction or clout in this community puppet is sick and tired of seeing bigots successfully mulling around at the edges without getting figuratively chased away with a blunt object.