i love you

｡･ﾟ♡ﾟ ⋆｡ June will bring us miracles

｡･ﾟ♡ﾟ ⋆｡ June will bring us blessings

｡･ﾟ♡ﾟ ⋆｡ June will bring us healing energy

be in the present and notice those little things you never saw before, but that have always been there

experience new exciting things that bring you joy

love people, listen to them and create meaningful connections

make art and don’t label it as “good” or “bad,” just let your soul be free

stop scrolling on social media and start turning pages of an interesting book

do mindfulness meditation and feel your body and mind calming down

move your body, no matter how as long as you’re enjoying

listen to music that matches the moment you’re in

eat nourishing food, feel your stomach full without discomfort

get a good night of sleep and feel yourself ready for another day

1. You are someone’s dream girl exactly the way you are right now.

We put so much emphasis on growth and getting to that “next best place”, which is fine, but we always forget that we deserve self-love as we are right now. It does not mean that you aren’t at your “best” physically and/or mentally that you aren’t deserving of love, kindness, and respect.

2. Perspective is everything

Stop stressing over that one bad grade you received at school. In ten years, you won’t even remember what teacher gave it to you. Focus your energy on things that’ll have lasting impacts. When you look back on your life, you want to see the beauty of it, not the anguish.

3. Growth isn’t linear

Don’t blame yourself for messing up. We aren’t perfect and we are bound to mess up every once in a while. Learn from your mistakes, and try to not repeat them. And if you do, that’s okay, there’s always another time. Growth has no time limit.

4. You are not a bad person

If you are sitting here constantly asking yourself if you are a bad person or underserving of love, I’m here to tell you one thing: bad people don’t worry about whether they are perceived as “good” or “bad”. Give yourself grace, and stop letting your overthinking consume you.

So much love,

i deserve a fit body that moves me.

i deserve a life of leisure, free to pursue new hobbies that make me a more cultured woman

the woman i want to be loves to

educate herself on various topics

take care of herself mentally, physically and spiritually

be pretty in her own way. prettiness doesn’t hurt and isn’t strict, it adapts itself through her authenticity

explore her inner world & the outer world

be in tune with her inner child

embrace and understand her emotions, even the bad ones

be kind, specially with herself

be organized, but flexible with what life gives her

work hard, rest hard. she loves to be in harmony and have a balanced life

eat light and nourishing food

feel good in her own skin and she actively work on it everyday

take her meds because she knows it’s good for her

I know. I know the frustration of not being in charge of your life. Especially when you are financially dependent and for some under 20s. Everyone treats you like a child but expects you to be an adult.

Then we have the group who go on insisting they are adults and capable of taking life decisions but for the love of God can't change their bedsheet responsibly.

Thus, I have come up with some mini tricks that will make you feel just a tiny bit independent:

Anytime anywhere list

1) Learn how to cook.

2) Take responsibility for household chores such as washing clothes, utensils,etc.

3) Do groceries shopping.

4) Keep track of the essentials required at home and make sure to stock them up.

5) Change the bedsheets weekly.

6) Clean your cupboards timely.

7) Plan a trip with your friends and take care of the execution part.

8) Decide what to make for lunch, dinner or breakfast and execute it solely (right from buying the food required to cooking it).

9) Check on your younger siblings studies. Take an update of their life or keep your room organized and clean.

10) Grow plants.

Planned execution list

Live alone. Try to get out of your parental home and start a new life in another city.

Get an internship/job.

Manage your finances on a budget and save money at the same time.

Take major life decisions such as your career field, whom to be friends with, etc solely on your own judgement.

Learn to navigate difficult social situations with ease.

Adopt a pet.

Develop your own ethical system.

Curate your discipline.

Identify your non-negotiable in different aspects of life.

Learn to speak up for yourself.

Affirmation to read today! Every day is an opportunity to grow and evolve. I promise to always strive in becoming the best version of myself. ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱₊˚⊹🌟💪

◌ 🌸 ⠀ׅ⠀⠀ׁ⠀ 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝗏𝗂𝖻𝖾𝗌

◌ 🍡 ⠀ׅ⠀⠀ׁ⠀ 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝗆𝖺𝗀𝗂𝖼

◌ 🫧 ⠀ׅ⠀⠀ׁ⠀ 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝖾𝗇𝖾𝗋𝗀𝗒

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of blessings

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of love

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of happiness

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of good physical health

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of good mental health

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of peace

⊹ 𐙚 ⋆ full of gratitude

Affirm daily 🦋

i am walking into June optimistic & stress free

i have faith that all my problems will go away

i will continue to practice gratitude

i will love myself unconditionally

i will find a reason to smile daily

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

the week ahead will be amazing for me

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

 💰 I am always financially secure

 💰 Money comes to me with ease

 💰 I am financially abundant

 💰 Money loves me

 💰 I always have enough money to afford my wants and needs

 💰 I am financially set for life