俺ら若過ぎた　ただ若過ぎた

Both in Das Fleißige Lieschen and Die Kälte der Erde, the culprits were only driven to do what they did because of an abusive system that failed them.

Lida's brother got publicly beaten to death in a fucking working camp for a crime he didn't commit, and then she had to watch for years as the company claimed to never have employed exploited workers.

Alina's ex could despite her wishes, stop the adoption process of Alina's daughter, and stalk and harass her with no consequence. No wonder she took matters in her own hands, driven by desperation and her wishes for her daughter's future.

The tennis player woman in episode one reported Eric Hofer who literally threatened to break her arms, and nothing happened.

Adam tried to report his abusive father as a child and, you guessed it, nothing happened.

My (32m) best friend (32m) recently figured out that I have found the money that my now-deceased father stole about 25 years ago during a bank heist.  About 16  years ago my best friend hit my father with a shovel that sent him into a coma for 15 years probably saving my life in the process. He then woke up about a year ago, killed himself and made it look like a murder, framing me for his own suicide. My best friend helped me prove my innocence. However, a lot of men know about my father and the money he stole and are currently trying to get their hands on it. They already attacked me when I was in prison after I got arrested for my father's alleged murder.  Since then I got attacked another time, but I was easily able to handle it.

I know that my best friend just wants to protect me after everything that we went through together but I don’t want him to get involved even more than he already is. He told me he would go to the end of the world with me but I really don’t want him to. It will only get him hurt. I will only get him hurt. But now he is extremely mad at me for not telling him about the money and actively lying to him when he was asking what was going on. He accused me of only trusting myself. Am I the asshole?

My (32m) best friend’s (32m) father was a bank robber when my best friend was still a kid. In his last heist, he stole around 1,2 million€ but things went wrong, and his partner went to prison. My best friend's father fell into a coma shortly after and wasn’t able to spend the money. He woke up about a year ago but recently killed himself. Before his death, however, he told my best friend where he hid the money. My best friend found it a couple of months ago and never fucking told me about it even after he got attacked TWICE because of it.

I don’t really care about the money. I do a little because we are both cops and I think he should handle this the legal way, but this is mostly about me wanting to be in the loop. We went through a lot together as kids and as adults and I have always been there for him, and I just want him to be safe and to be able to protect him. And I can’t do this when he actively lies to me and tells me that everything is fine when it clearly isn’t. He got his fingers broken by his uncle in prison (He got framed for the suicide of his father) and now every single criminal in the country we live in seems to know or at least suspect that he has the money. He carries it around in a duffle bag for fucks sake. That’s where I found it.

I told him in another fight that I will go to the end of the world for him but that I can’t be a part of this when he continues to act this way around me. I told him that I know he doesn’t trust me or anyone else and that he has to stop pretending that he is the center of the universe to which he replied that he only seems to be the center my universe. Which isn’t untrue but he just continues to deflect when I call him out on his behavior. I have been ignoring him since we found the money, but I know this isn’t the way to solve this situation.

Am I the asshole for going off on him? I know it’s his right to keep things from me, but I just can’t live with him not trusting me enough.

Edit: What do you mean, there is a post similar to this? And no nothing about this story is fake.

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