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ilkkavilli_offical A Finnish November miracle - a ray of sunlight.

favorite on-screen couples: gomez & morticia, the addams family and addams family values

If somebody’s out there lurkin and chillin and is curious about getting hypnotized, but worried the guy who does it is gonna like, IDK, chain them to a radiator, make them send all their cash over Venmo, compromise their identity or make them do all manner of public and uncomfortable shit so the other dude can get off - that ain’t me. Those are all totally rational fears in the online hypno scene tbh - or several other kink scenes - and it’s why I avoid a lot of it myself.

But if you are a guy lookin to get hypnotized but want no other weirdness that is all good in the hood son. I ain’t gonna try and make you turn your blog into a shrine to me bc even if I didn’t find that tacky and awful on its face, tbh I don’t use this tumblr much and who has that kind of time? I ain’t gonna try and change your waking mind or personality w/o permission or make you do things beyond informed consent. I ain’t gonna take pix or video w/o consent. All I’m gonna try to do unless you ask otherwise is put you into a trance - make you relax - and bring you back out again. Anything else is up for rational, informed discussion without judgment or pressure. That’s the bare minimum you should require of any dom or partner in any kind of kink play, and it goes triple for hypnosis work.

I see a lot on tumblr lately regarding the defense of underage participants in a certain community, as well as the underage participants expressing anger that they are not welcome on NSFW blogs. As a NSFW blogger, as well as someone who has come to know various sex laws due to their career, I thought I would clarify some things:

1. It doesn’t matter what the age of consent in your state is. Age of consent refers to the age that you are able to consent to sexual activity only.

2. Even if you are able to consent at age 16 or 17, by law you are still a minor. Pornography cannot be sold or viewed by minors.

3. If you are under 18 and you post explicit photos of yourself, you can be charged with creating and circulating child pornography, as the images contain a minor.

4. It is normal to have interests in sex and kink, regardless of age. There are safe spaces on the internet to seek these out and ask questions regarding your interests. Spaces where you can communicate with other teens, that are well moderated and do not allow adults to freely graze and prey.

5. As a minor, showing purposeful disregard for another blogger or a website’s request that no minors be present on the site (and for some explicit material, 21 is the age for legal viewership) puts the owner of that blog and/or website at risk. No one wants to see awesome sex bloggers get shut down or sex friendly spaces on the internet get hit for having underage members. Think about more than just yourselves.

This is important.

I pitched my fucking hypnofetish to my new boyfriend as, “you like making me moan? imagine being able to do that from across the room by snapping your fingers.”

turns out that was a real good sell because he just left my house with my copy of Mind Play