A Harem Apology
I’ve knowingly lied, cheated, and hurt a lot of girls.
I acknowledge that I deserve to be judged for that, and I understand why someone would see me as a bad person.
And I also understand it’s easy to label me as selfish or narcissistic. But for my own clarity, I don’t fully agree with reducing myself to that.
I partly believe that the choices that led me here, and the consequences that followed are part of a chain of events I didn’t fully understand at the time. A kind of cause and effect that keeps moving forward no matter what I choose.
But that doesn’t erase responsibility.
Even if life is chaotic and unpredictable, the impact of my actions on other people is still real. And the fact that others have been hurt because of me is something I have to carry.
I also know that labeling someone as “pure evil” is too simple. People are shaped by experiences, mistakes, and patterns they sometimes don’t fully understand. That doesn’t excuse harm, but it explains that people are more complicated than a single label.
I’ve also been hurt before. I know what it feels like to be replaced, to be chosen less, to feel like you didn’t matter as much as someone else.
At the time, I reacted emotionally. Looking back, I realize how small some of those moments were in the bigger picture of life. But I still understand why they hurt.
Right now, I feel guilt for the people I’ve hurt, especially because I’m currently in a relationship with someone who treats me well. That happiness makes the guilt louder, not quieter.
It also makes me anxious about what the future holds.
But I accept that I can’t undo what’s already been done.
So for closure, I want to sincerely and humbly apologize to anyone I’ve hurt. Not as a label, but as a person who understands he caused harm.







