When I think about it even in their marriages the Queen is like William while Harry is like Charles. The Queen fell for Philip but waited until the right time, according to her parents, and Philip followed all the requirements to be fit for the role. Same with William and Catherine. He fell for her, waited for the right time and she made sure she was going to do her role justice and took time to learn.
Charles, on the other hand, was a mess. Fell in love didn’t follow through, married a teenager he knew for a month, divorced her instead of trying hard to make her adjust in the role and then went chasing after Camilla hugely impacting his position as prince of wales and king. Harry is the same. Fell in love and chased women but no one wanted him. Meets Meghan, doesn’t care about whether she is for the role or not, just marries her and creates a never ending mess.
What I have learned from all this is how important patience is. It’s annoying but in the long term so beneficial.
You know the saying....marry in haste, repent at leisure.