you are loved

I don’t usually have feelings so when I have them they’re overwhelming

“Mental illness is not an excuse to—“ WE KNOW. WE ALL KNOW. WE 👏🏻 ALL 👏🏻 ALREADY 👏🏻 KNOW 👏🏻 I have never ONCE in my life met an abuser or a shitty person who EVER blamed a mental illness for their actions. But you know who I HAVE met?! A TON of shitty people and abusers who REFUSE to acknowledge that they HAVE mental illnesses and instead blame their victims’ mental illnesses or conditions or use them as an excuse to abuse them!!! “Oh you have bpd so you know you’re hard to deal with” “well you’re autistic its hard to be your parent” “everyone knows students with ADHD are a nightmare” “I can’t help myself when you’re in one of your episodes” “do you even remember that right?” “You’re so over dramatic and you make things up because of x disorder” “you’re always imagining things” “no, you’re not remembering that right, you’re crazy” “stop acting like a fucking child, of course you are, it’s because you have x” why don’t we ever acknowledge that!