Talk of Me, Myself and I

Hi,

I know it's been a long time but you can't blame me.

Quick update on my life: College is killing me! JUST KIDDING! It's the thought of ending college and starting University is killing me.

So back to the topic after all that irrelevant blabber, an attempt to make my blog look *adds synonym for fancy*

Often, I have observed, when you tell someone they are fat, they'll feel a sudden offense.

Why?

I don't understand, really. Fat is not an insult. Here's what I am doing right now, I am referring to all of us. Specially two kinds of us.

A) People with sudden realization with complimentary surprise gasps.

B) People who are fat.

Let's talk about A) kinds of people. They'll observe you from far across and when they meet you, you'll witness their expression of surprise and a sentence as following,

You are fat.

I mean yes, I am fat, so? You're telling me like I have never noticed before which is absurd because I have like three mirrors. Okay, I get it. But why is it a surprising element? I'll never know.

Now, B),

Honestly you know what's actually surprising? When people who are insecure are told that they are fat and they just kind of cry to that. Why do you do that bruh? Have you cried when someone tells you that you're pretty darn amazing? No right? I know there isn't no comparison but fat is an adjective as well and if you take it as a negative adjective, it's your mentality.

Personally, I will not take any offense if someone comes up to me and tells me I am fat. Yes I am fat, so what? There's nothing wrong with being fat. I mean yes, health wise speaking it isn't the best but if you are taking it in a category which resides in the opposite of the word, 'beautiful' then I'd like to pop the bubble of oblivion you are living in. You are wrong!

Let's step into two quick lessons you'll need to kick the stereotype mentality in the butt by yours truly.

1. Acceptance

Hey, this outfit is making me look fat.

It does, it makes you look beautiful.

This is how it's done.

What Not To Say

No, you don't look fat at all. You look beautiful.

What To Say

Yes, it does. It makes you look beautiful.

2. Confidence

It's all about carrying yourself to be honest. How you embrace who you are with confidence. If you wish for a size zero body and yet you don't know how to carry yourself, you will not shine. Stop letting society's beauty standards define you.

Keep in mind, don't let society brainwash you.

Honestly, it's not just about being fat. It's about all those adjectives people think aren't worthy enough to make it in the beauty list made by people with minus zero mentality? No offense.

That's about it,

Please remember you don't have to look at the world like everybody is looking.

Share this with people who might be interested,

I am off to watching a thriller movie, any suggestions?

Until next time,

Hi,

I logged into my blog to find two comments and to be honest, I smiled widely knowing someone actually took their time to read my blog so thank you, if you are reading this right now or you did before.

Today, I thought of analyzing an emotion which I feel most of the time and it's okay to admit it. I feel okay admitting that I feel depressed sometimes.

Depression, the word itself holds so much power and we let it take over us just in the matter of seconds and it sucks to know sometimes we feel so trapped that it seems hard to even breath.

I mean it 100% when I say, this is worst of all. Honestly, why does this even exists? It's like I am chilling on my couch, watching Netflix, eating these amazing butter pop corns when suddenly someone pounds really hard on my door.

I am surprised because it's midnight and I am not expecting any visitors except if it's God of Extra cheese pizza sending his mercy towards me. Anyway, where was I? Right so, I get up slowly approaching the door. I DIDN'T EVEN OPEN THE DOOR I JUST INNOCENTLY PEEKED THROUGH THE HOLE TO SEE WHO IS IT. And there I see, familiar toothy grin, rather evil grin and I know it belongs to none other than Depression the douche bag. It just consumes me suddenly, you know? Like one time I am all chilling singing at top of my lungs and the next I know, I am staring blankly at the wall thinking about my insecurities?

You know what's the funny part?

When I am staring blank at the wall/ceiling and I suddenly feel hot something slipping from my eyes to my cheeks like woah chill the fuck out teary glands! I didn't even plan this shit.

Anyway, it has a end for sometime and what I do to ignore it hoping it will go away is watch TV series or go out, travel. It really helps me!

What about you? Do you feel depressed? If yes, then what do you to do stop it?