The (potential) romantic relationships in My Name (no objectivity, just my opinion and what could have been) : Mujin, Taeju and Jiwoo
I hope the holidays were for everyone! With the resumption of classes comes the resumption of the Tumblr (what could be more logical ?)
So for this post I warn : I don't repeat couples (for example, if I mentioned Mujin/Jiwoo in Mujin's section, I'm not going to do it with Jiwoo) !
Similarly, the Pildo/Jiwoo couple is not mentioned because it is canonical !
Not a couple. But occasional hookups ? Surely !
Their personalities match in this sense at this level: they are both pragmatic, quite emotionally detached (not the type to be romantic, to get into each other's heads and to be jealous) and Mujin trusts Miss Kang enough to sleep with her (I can't imagine him trusting an escort or whatever, but Miss Kang works for them).
So... Miss Kang sleeps with Mujin from time to time. Always behind a professional pretext: a meeting at his office, a restaurant (because I imagine that Mujin has a minimum of elegance at that level) and then they sleep together in his room. Fast, tough and efficient, then Miss Kang leaves directly (or shortly after if she needs a makeover) because she wants the organization to believe that their relationship remains professional (and in itself it is, they only satisfy a need from time to time).
The series almost flirts with this idea when we see Mujin following Donghoon because he suspected him of having a wife in his life. He looks like a jealous man!
I think they would be the kind of couple to be sun/moon, you know? On the one hand, there is a very serious Mujin, who takes his responsibilities to heart, often melancholic or in a dark mood. And on the other hand, Donghoon who is joyful, who jokes, who is more lively.
And it is Donghoon who "teaches" Mujin how to live: who pushes him to relax, to have fun, who de-dramatizes certain situations, etc...
I've already talked about it a lot so I'll be brief:
If it's the Mujin that killed Donghoon, their couple could have been nice. A bit like the archetype of the extrovert/introvert or the dominant/shy.
Taeju is the withdrawn type: he speaks little, keeps his emotions and thoughts to himself. And I think that the Mujin of the time, would have had a lot of fun forcing Taeju out of this bubble or making him discover things that Taeju would never have done if Mujin hadn't dragged him there by force.
(And that, including in bed)
But the Mujin of the series? Add sex to their dynamics (Mujin demanding or deciding when he wants, Taeju submitting) and you have an idea of what their relationship would have been like.
I talk about it because I know that many people put them together, but personally it's not a couple that convinces me.
First of all, it doesn't matter if Donghoon is dead or not: she is the daughter of his best friend and they have a very large age gap. And honestly, I don't think Mujin is the type to be interested in a girl who is old enough to be his daughter (especially since she was still a minor when they met for the first time).
I guess if Mujin had to have a relationship with Jiwoo, it would be in the post-Donghoon era, but it wouldn't be something beautiful or healthy.
He would cling to her because she is what is left of Donghoon, as he can talk about Donghoon with her. But that means he wouldn't love Jiwoo for herself: he loves her for what she represents, for what she reminds him of.
An impossible couple in the series, but which could have worked if things had been different (like, by chance, if Donghoon had not been an undercover policeman).
Because in the end, Jiwoo and Taeju are similar in a lot of ways in the series: their stubborn side (since Taeju acts several times against Mujin's orders or without his agreement), their isolation, their silence, their seriousness.
I think that if Taeju hadn't been so concerned about Mujin's survival (and if things had been different), they would have been a solid couple!
I think they would have been a calm/explosive couple. Like: on a daily basis, everyone does what they want, they check in with each other, give each other the space they need, etc... Because in the end they are similar enough to understand each other.
But when things get complicated (for example something serious) and one asks the other not to do something that could endanger him (or derail a project)? You can be sure that he will do it anyway, and that it will cause an explosive argument. Then they will end up apologizing after several hours (or days) of making faces and giving themselves the silent treatment.
Bonus: Mujin would be very happy to see them as a couple and would probably laugh when he saw them argue. Donghoon would probably be very annoyed to see his daughter getting closer to Dongcheon when she wanted to keep him away.
(For those who haven't seen the post where I talked about the organization: this is the man who regularly appears alongside Mujin and Taeju)
I think they would be the ultimate calm couple. Jang-Soon has the merit of knowing Taeju for years (maybe since they were young recruits) and knowing how demanding their world can be. And in fact... Well especially to know him/her and to be immersed in it too (it avoids relationships that break the face because you have to lie to your partner about what you do for a living):
Taeju can't get home before 3am because there was a problem that he has to deal with because Mujin doesn't want to take care of it? Jang-Soon understands this.
Taeju comes home injured after a fight? That's their job. Jang-Soon would probably just be worried about the potential severity of the injury. And he would be all the more careful to cover him in future missions.
Disappearance for days, lack of contact and messages because they are both too busy with work? No problem. It's not a lack of interest in the other person, nor a lack of love, so why argue about it or have jealous fits?
I also think Jang-Soon would be a kind of silent support, like in the show. He makes sure that Taeju's orders are followed, he watches over him when he can, he helps him with the hardest tasks... Because he knows that Taeju has a lot on his shoulders and that he wants to be able to relieve him as much as he can.
They wouldn't have been a good couple, even if Gangjae had been less stupid after the tournament.
Gangjae is the figure of the "nice-guy" as I said in a previous post: he pretends to be interested in and appreciates Jiwoo because he sees an interest in it (she was brought back by Mujin, which means that she must be important to him). But this interest and kindness disappear when she defeats him and thus undermines his plans for the future: to finally become a soldier, to show Mujin that he is a good fighter and on top of that, he is publicly humiliated in an organization, let's say, very machismo.
At that moment, he reveals what he really is: a vicious, evil and perverse being.
Gangjae would have only gotten with Jiwoo out of interest. As I just said, he knows that Jiwoo is protected by Mujin and that he has plans for her. So being in a relationship with her (and not just sleeping with her once and then bragging about it to others) will put him in Mujin's good papers.
And perhaps Jiwoo would have confided in him and delivered information that Gangjae could have used in his quest for power to get to the top of the organization.
But in any case, he wouldn't have liked Jiwoo. He would have pretended to love it but he would have done nothing but use it.
(Same remark as for Jang-Soon, this is the name I gave to the recruit who hung out a lot with Gangjae and Oh-Kim).
I see him as a kind of Pildo, but Dongcheon version:
Like Pildo, he is a real asshole towards Jiwoo at first: he speaks badly to her and treats her badly. However, unlike Oh-Kim, he doesn't sexualize her, and I had put forward the hypothesis that this kind of treatment must probably be a "hazing" that all young recruits had to endure (see if they have it in their stomachs, if they can withstand the pressure... and Jiwoo endures more because. well, it's a girl).
But deep down, he is not evil, since he tries to stop Oh-Kim and Gangjae from abusing Jiwoo and warns Taeju to stop them.
In the series, it is when Gangjae assaults them that Pildo begins to truly appreciate Jiwoo and worry about her.
I have the impression that for Min-Seok, it would have been the same thing: Gangjae's aggression would probably have pushed him to be more attentive to Jiwoo and try to calm things down with the other guys, perhaps fearing another attack.
And Jiwoo would have started to open up to him a little because she would have noticed (as she ended up seeing with Pildo) that he is trying to be nice to her.