levs selfships !!

⭐️Your F/o is not only super supportive of you, but they are super patient with you.

⭐️Your F/o is aware of all your triggers and will actively avoid them, whether that be avoiding to touch certain parts of your body, not wearing certain clothing items, not yelling or easing their voice, or avoiding certain words/phrases to prevent flashbacks.

⭐️Your F/o isn’t disappointed that they may have to avoid a lot of media/content. They understand that even a LARGE chunk of media is potentially triggering to you. They will enjoy whatever you are comfortable enjoying, even if it means you can only sit through rated PG kids content.

⭐️Your F/o never EVER thinks of you as being a prude, or oversensitive, or a pussy, etc. They don’t think your reactions and emotions to your trauma are ‘too much’, or ‘babyish’. They understand why you feel the way you do, they empathize with you and comfort you whenever you are retraumatized.

⭐️Whenever you are getting flashbacks or retraumatized, your F/o immediately knows it; you don’t have to say anything, they know you are having an episode. They will do anything to ground you and get you out of that state. They can hug you or nuzzle you, or even don’t touch you at all of your not in a state to be touched.

⭐️Your F/o is protective of you. They will shield you from any triggering situations. If anyone tries to purposefully trigger you, or don’t take your triggers seriously, your F/o will get defensive and call them out for their behavior.

⭐️You never have to apologize for the way you are to your F/o. They love you, they will be with you through thick and thin. All they want is for you to be happy, for you to be comfortable, and especially for you to feel safe.

your f/os love you forever and would never listen to people who are mean to you and insult you and say untrue things about u! they will never be swayed by their words or be convinced by their lies and instead will stand with you and defend you from any and all bullies because they know it is bullshit! and you are worth so so much and you're so amazing and awesome

Welcome to my selfship/sonas blog! This is where I'll be yapping about selfshipping stuff, and also my sonas. "I've been waiting for this!" Something I want to explain real quick is that this is extremely self indulgent, and may seem 'cringe' to some people, but I'm trusting y'all to not bully me off the internet, because this makes me happy, so if you don't like the stuff I yap about, your free to just not interact with my blog. But if you decide to stay, then welcome!! <3 I hope you enjoy what I yap about, and the creations that come from my brain. Interactions are very encouraged!! I would love to hear what people have to say about my self-indulgent shenanigans. :] The main thing that people would maybe see as cringe is the fact that two of my sonas are sort of put in the place of the protagonists of 2 Persona games, Persona 3 and Persona 5. So, as a warning, this blog will absolutely contain Persona 3 and Persona 5 spoilers!! "Let me explain."

Some things about me

I love selfshippers who have multiple f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have cartoon f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have live action f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have video game f/os.

I love selfshippers who only ship with OCs.

I love selfshippers who only have anime f/os.

I love selfshippers whose f/os are from other pieces of media that I didn't mention in this post.

I love you all! You are valid.

“not enough time! i'm not ready, Bear, i'm not ready at all!”

hello! you can call me lev or tutter, i am 20 y/o and use strictly xe/it pronouns, so i ask that you don't refer to me by any other pronouns!

this is a sideblog for selfship letters, aka letters from your f/os, whether they be romantic, platonic, familial, or something other! i will not do nsfw though.

requests are currently open!!

i will only do letters from media im familiar with, but thankfully that's quite a lot! i however will deny anything pr0sh1p related and requesting such will get you blocked!

you must know that i am only one mouse, and mentally ill at that. my posts may be slow so you need to have patience! see under the cut for more info on how to request :3

tutter, the character, obviously does not belong to me! he is from the disney show bear in the big blue house!

divider is made by sisterlucifergraphics!

mainly inspired by @happyhounddeliveries and @pigeonpostoffice !!!

Imagine helping your F/O come to understand themselves and being neurodivergent through seeing you being so open about it and accepting yourself. They let themselves unmask or not be so harsh on their coping mechanisms, emotions, or reactions to things.

imagine your f/o(s) reacting like this when you confess your crush on them!

could i ask for a joint romantic letter from sebastian michaelis and william t spears from black butler? anything is fine!!

~ @yume-yearning

**It's hard to find good help these days, at least...That's something someone with a lot more money than we could say. But luckily, if you're ever in need for one hell of a butler, it seems they keep letter writing tucked in their repertoire should you ever have the need. Your letter arrives with the posthound, who is looking remarkably well groomed. With a turn and a "WWWOF!" he announces your delivery!**