selfship help!

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I'll just call em A for now

Okay so I have 2 f/os, I'll be calling them B and C for anonymity..

So basically A, B, and C are like in some weird relationship thing in source material / canon where B is desperately trying for A to love them (but if you look closely in B's character, it's not really that but ahem) while A doesn't do anything much about it but just treats B a bit more coldly. Meanwhile, A and C get along really well and like

A and C are one of the most like universally agreed upon ships in the fandom and it makes me feel so weird 😭

I like A, I really do, they're a very likeable character but it's just in this specific setting of A and C (or maybe even B) together makes me feel jealous and it doesn't even have to be in a directly romantic way and ughhhh I feel so bad about it 😓😓😓

hi everyone! terribly sorry about the inactivity. mod 🌠 recently got a job so they haven't had much time to interact here, and mod ☁️ has been very burnt out and focused on other projects right now.

with that being said, i suppose you could consider us on hiatus? but we still plan to rb promo posts and events and stuff here and there - we just need some time to rest so we can get back to the swing of things with more energy that you all deserve!

when we come back, we'll open the askbox! that being said we're also going to empty any remaining asks that we don't have the energy to respond to... very sorry to those anons & users in advance! it's just been very hard to do so TmT

And in case if I need an anon tag or smth, maybe I could be the 🍒 🐇 anon?

hi 🍒🐇 anon! there is absolutely nothing wrong with needing a break from your f/o and growing attached to another; i don't think that's replacing or breaking up with them at all!

i don't think it's a silly question at all!! honestly for me it's also like a click - i typically don't get platonic f/os much unless it hits hard, yaknow? but i think there's nothing wrong with just simply choosing a character you like and friendshipping with them! it just depends on what you want to do, i think!

I'm 14, and she's 18. No problematic dynamics in our relationship <3 I am just kind of afraid, that people will consider it as prship or thing, similar to it :<

Anon 🐟🫧, or Fischie

i have a canvas on procreate dedicated to selfship doodles so that’s where these come from

today (june 29th in case this is posted after) is kazuichi souda’s birthday so i made this doodle with my s/i aki, she baked him a cake!

pride month doodlie, JOLYNE AND LEPROPERA, LETS GO LESBIANS!

and, new selfship, f.f and adoru

(i headcanon the foof as chubby)

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we're back from our trip and we had a splendid time! we will be keeping the askbox closed just for a little longer so we can fully empty it before accepting any new ones :)

I’ve debated selfshipping with him for a while, and I just made an s/i (who albeit looks nothing like me, so she’s more of an oc) to be his daughter last night.

But this is so weird because it’s the first selfship I have that’s not rooted in my paracosm, so I don’t know how long I’m gonna actually commit for… 🤔

Anyways, I guess I got a new dad and I’ll see where this goes 😅

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so, i wanted to apologize if my vent made either or both of the mods uncomfortable. i know it was long, and a lot, and i completely understand why you wouldn’t want to answer, because tbh idk if i would know how to respond to something like that either. i wasn’t looking for any advice, i just wanted someone to hear me and didn’t know where else to go, so thank you if you did read it. but again i’m sorry for dumping all of that on you out of no where

for future reference, if you know of any blogs that are open to all venting, please tag them. i know a lot of these confession blogs aren’t and i don’t want to cross any boundaries again

also if you were wondering. i’m alright. i did find a way to talk to my f/o about things. which made me feel a bit better

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hi ☕️🌊⏳ anon! im so sorry we didn't get to your ask - unfortunately looking through the askbox and the queue we didn't find it? we only delete ones that are problematic, so if tumblr ate it or something else happened, either way im very sorry!