Moved to sels-ships

I am considering moving blogs. Will update when I decide.

Sel update: I will be moving blogs but the new one isn’t ready yet (literally just created it lmao). I will give the username once it is ready! This blog will not be deleted but will no longer be in use.

i love when a selfshipper is like “well maybe i’ll just have a little casual crush on this character just for fun, nothing serious haha” like sorry to spoil you but that’s your new lawfully wedded spouse

here’s my advice. that thing you’re insecure about? make it one of your f/o’s favorite things about you. doesn’t matter what it is. it’ll be hard at first, you might think ‘there’s no way my f/o could love this part of me that much’. it’s fine. try it anyway. every time you become aware of your insecurity, you see it in the mirror or you see yourself doing it, don’t shy away from it in embarrassment or disgust. face it head on. tell yourself that your f/o loves it. they adore it. they think it’s cute, hot, unique, endearing. you don’t have to like it right away. you don’t ever really have to love it ever. but at least don’t hate it. and if you can’t not hate it for you, try to not hate it because your f/o really likes it and they’d be pretty hurt if they heard you talking bad about it.

This one's for the self shippers who like the thought of getting to care for their f/o. They love and appreciate everything that you do for them, and every moment spent with you is something they cherish. You make their life better, and they don't know what they would do without you and your support. You make them feel accepted and loved more than they ever have been before

I want you to know that even if you don't like yourself, your f/o looks at you like you've created everything beautiful in this world, they adore your strength and your vulnerability and they can't get enough of your energy and who you are. They love being around you whether you both talk or it's complete silence and they'd do anything to show you that, they'd reassure you every time if they needed to if it's what helped you feel more loved. Because you are, you are so loved, and that includes being loved by them.

Imagine your f/o participating in something you enjoy, even if they don't think they'll enjoy it at first, they give a chance because they genuinely want to spend time with you. They want to experience that bonding moment with you, to see the joy in your face. And even if it ends up being something they didn't get into, they're glad they at least got to do something interesting with you.