PupAxel

Happy Halloween! Since I will most likely be on deployment for Halloween, I thought I’d make a post for my favorite holiday.

Here is a cocktail you can serve at Halloween parties boys

The Caramel Apple

2 part Apple pucker 2 part triple Sec 2 part silver tequila 2 part lime juice

*Shake these and pour in a martini glass over ice*

1 part simple syrup 1 part amaretto

*Mix these and pour over the cocktail to get a layered look*

This has broken my heart in two and I think we are all still dealing with the shock.

The beautiful and wonderful @pupnobley has died in an accident.

Nobley was one of the sweetest and kindest people I had the good luck to know and he was such a beautiful warm hearted role model for the community.

I just can’t take in the fact that he is gone and won’t ever be around to brighten up a day ever again. I miss him so much already. I still remember when our owners took us both ice skating - he was so adorably unsteady 😊

Please give his partner time to deal with this horrible shock and please support anyone you know who will be grieving.

This is quite possibly the hardest thing I’ve had to write, I’m filled with so much sadness and upset as I do, but you should all know. Last night Pup Nobley was involved in an accident and has passed away. </3 The community has lost a dear friend and pup.

It’s hard to describe how much I and everyone else is going to miss him. He was such a lovely person, one of the nicest I’ve known, so talented and hard-working and always there for everyone. It’s difficult to come with terms that I’m not going to get to speak with him again.

Please respect the Kinky Boyfriend, Nick’s, privacy during this time. Messages will get to him eventually but as hard as this is for us it’s so much worse for him, he needs time to heal and come to terms with what’s happened.

 For those that didn’t know Nobley well, his YouTube videos sum him up perfectly for me, I hope they can help you find some comfort: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZIOScw5M6bI8rTcCrhD9_g/videos

I was contacted this morning by yet another target of a San Francisco predator who routinely lures in young guys and emotionally manipulates or abuses them. He is mentally ill, paranoid, and mean-spirited. I’ve heard from dozens of boys he has targeted or succeeded with. I won’t call him out by screen name as I don’t want this to be seen as license to harass the guy. Rather consider this a cautionary tale. Here’s what to expect…

If you are a young submissive guy, J.M. has likely already contacted you or will soon via Recon, Facebook, Fetlife, Telegram, Kik, or other platform. He lurks everywhere. He will tell you that he wants to help you—either to focus on school, get a job, or similar. He will give you wildly inaccurate information on HIV and other unsolicited “advice” in the guise of being your friend.

He will tell you woefully false stories about how I “stole” Max, Whisper, Deviac, Migi, and other boys from him. (When I first started playing with Whisper, he even told Max that Whisper had STDs in order to scare Max away from me. He has spread that same misinformation to several others.) He will bash other doms in SF as well in order to scare you away from talking to them. He may promise you a collar or other gear. At some point, he will invite you to come visit and stay with him. If you do, you will likely regret that decision.

I have had many conversations with this guy, trying to get him to change his behavior. Two weeks ago, I gave him an ultimatum to, at the very least, stop trashing other people.

Unfortunately, he has decided to continue. This latest victim is a sub he tried to get to come to San Francisco from 1500 miles away. Fortunately, the boy (a follower of mine it turns out) was smart enough to recognize paranoia and manipulation when he saw it. He sent me dozens of screenshots of the despicable conversation.