like ambien wifeguy (girl version) but for Posting

court decision defending specifically transfems being excluded from from playing on women's teams? no transfems interviewed but here's some trans men we interviewed one of whom just wants to push his new book

panel on the transfem experience? no transfems speaking on it but here's three trans men larping as experts one of whom is just detailing his fetishistic fantasies about them with open contempt for transfem lesbians in particular

so first! can you explain to me how a neutral reaction to something that frequently happens and continues to happen "starting" anything let alone "a fucking fight"

One woman was talking about how (male) chasers are typically most interested in trans women before they've started hormones or in the early stages of hormones—in her experience at least. She insisted that this made their attraction to trans women something akin to pedophilia.

These two women were talking about Dylan Mulvaney taking a lot of flak for her (very public) transition. They were likening her initial stages of experimentation with femininity to what a child does and drew attention to men "hypersexualizing" this phase of experimentation and called it gross and creepy. There was also this insistence that being an adult transitioning makes you something like a teenager, who is not in command of a bunch of volatile and exciting new emotions.

But like I'm sorry but I don't think of it this way and I haven't experienced it this way either! Like yeah, you are bad at being feminine at first and the clothing situation takes a while to sort out (and is expensive). I sucked at it at first. There are things you have to learn to do. But that doesn't make you a child. It just means you're at the start of a learning curve.

Being and adult isn't just about going through the complete transformation of whatever hormones are running through your system. It's about having experience and practical wisdom, having a developed persona that cannot be easily pushed around by the whims of a dominating other. It's about having a robust sense of self and emotional maturity to navigate complex emotional situations with competence, grace and dignity. It's about having experience fending for yourself and navigating the adult world. I just don't think transitioning altered my sense of these things about myself. It's not as though I had to start all over and I think that matters morally! And it's not as though my body didn't develop. Like 20-something pre-hormone trans women do not have the bodies of children. They did go through puberty.

again. i did not say you were not oppressed. this post is literally about how you are oppressed. it is a reminder that you are not the most oppressed person in the world, a way i've seen a lot of white transfems acting lately. maybe not even necessarily in a detrimental way, but in a way that definitely leans towards the "white is default" lane of thinking, which erases black suffering, which erases progress towards black safety. this, to me, is troubling, which is why i made this post. it's important when building solidarity within our community to understand who the most vulnerable of us are, because the safety of the most vulnerable of us will ultimately be the safety of all of us.

"weird! i wonder why!" she exclaimed, whitely.

I beg y’all please help or share 🙏🏿 Lost my job June 16 alongside 2 Black employees and I’m currently facing an urgent utility hardship. My electricity has been disconnected since June 24, leaving me without refrigeration, cooking access, or laundry.

I’ve been surviving on peanut butter sandwiches since I can’t store food, and I can’t run a fan or AC in this heat. A friend has been bringing me a charged portable charger daily so I can keep my phone on and apply for jobs. I’ve honestly been bawling my eyes out trying to get through this and figure things out.

Electric Bill: $627/$1,934.80

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This has been happening all month with little to no international media attention. Here are a few organizations you can check out for resources or to support:

ActionAid India

SEEDS India

GlobalGiving

can you not fucking read? half the posts on my blog are about the transfemenine experience and what living as a woman affected by transmisogyny is like.

on the dykebrealing posts; so which was it? did he do it ut it was for a client or did he not do it and was he hacked? I haven't seen evidence for that so why don't you do that thing where you provide sources, like you keep demanding from me?

as for receipts about his virulent and proud transmisogyny and lesbophobia, here's what even a cursory google search will yield. this is a fraction of a fraction of what has been saved(afaik, he deleted all the posts in question, weird that, huh?)

no doubt you'll find this unconvincing. I know you weren't actually basing your stance on evidence. I can imagine your response "it's fake, he didn't mean that, it's not that bad" etc.

just to summarize, you go onto a trans woman's post pointing out transmisogyny, accuse her of being a nazi, antisemite, terf, then attack an unrelated trans women who was the target of a mass harassment and pedojacketing campain(including by the misogynist you're defending and which started on kiwifarms btw) of something there is no evidence for(fucking show the evidence coward, it doesn't exist) get blocked by the first trans woman, go on your alt blog to keep harassing her and accuse her of faking being trans.

how the fuck do you think you're anything but a transmisogynistic stalker?

even if I were to give you the benefit of the doubt, which you have proven unworthy of, you didn't even start by trying to argue against my points, you went straight to calling a trans woman a nazi terf and just kept going from there. you're not accusing me of anything because you actually believe it. you didn't even go on my blog to check if any of what you said holds water.

I beg y’all please help or share. Lost my job June 16 alongside 2 Black employees. I currently need help with an urgent utility hardship. My electricity has been disconnected since June 24, leaving me without refrigeration, cooking access, or laundry.

Electric Bill: $150 / $1,934.80

Cash App: $Queenloki89

Venmo: Queenloki89

*looks inside*