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An oriented aro ace person might also be in a relationship despite lacking attraction such as if they are cupioromantic ( see my other post)

There is also a term called Angled Aro Ace - This is for people who feel a tertiary attraction but aren't strictly Aro Ace (elsewhere on the Aro Ace spectrum such as grey or demi). However, most people seem to accept aro ace spec people as oriented too, so use the label that makes you most comfortable. Don't let anybody gate keep you.

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Did you know Aro Aces can have an orientation?

Ace people (Asexual) don't feel sexual attraction

Aro people (Aromantic) don't feel romantic attraction

That doesn't stop them from experiencing OTHER forms of attraction!

Some kinds of tertiary attraction:

aesthetic- the ability to admire beauty

sensual - appeals to senses such as touch in a non-sexual way

alterous - a deep emotional connection

queerplatonic - relationships that aren't romantic but are more than friends.

An aro ace person who experiences these kinds of attractions might feel that it's significant enough to take on another label to describe it

"I only feel queer platonic attraction towards other women! I'm an aro ace lesbian!"

"I feel enough aesthetic and sensual attraction to men that I call myself a gay aro ace.

I like being touched but not in a sexual or romantic way, such as holding hands and cuddling!"

Remember - Engaging in what is perceived to be romantic behaviors doesn't necessarily indicate romantic or sexual attraction