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Don't fall victim of FOMO. Most of the "fun" activities you see advertised on social media or by the greater youth culture are detrimental to your growth as a person and will pay back in negative ways later on: partying, consuming alcohol/drugs, being promiscuous, recklessly spending money traveling and buying food, etc.

Instead use your precious youth working on layering the foundations for your life and growing as person, focus on:

• Gaining financial literacy

• Acquire proper manners and etiquette to best blend in with important people and be taken more seriously in business settings or formal gatherings

• Learn how to properly dress and keep a prudent demeanor. Avoid at all costs replicating the fast fashion trends of social media and the culture of neurotic impulsivity many of your age peers may have

• Work hard to overcome childhood traumas that keep you from properly interact with other and affect your own self-image

• Build valuable connections from people who can mentor you

• Be active networking with people who are in similar professional or interests groups as you to have connections for future projects

• Spend your time reading self development books and applying the learned concepts into your life

• Work hard and learn to invest your money, prioritize exercise and proper dieting to keep your vitality high, your health and help you preserve your youth.

• Acquire transferable skills that you can use in different scenarios such as: learning how to sell, learning multiple languages, improving your emotional intelligence, etc.

A few examples, and in no particular order:

1. What has influenced your decision to want an SB?

2. How long have you been searching for one, and which sites did you use?

3. Have you had any negative experiences with Sugaring? Either in your search for one, or in your previous arrangement?

4. Are there people that you don’t like? What characteristics was it about them, that you didn’t like/enjoy?

5. Where do you consider to be good places for an SD/SB to be romantic?

6. What are some ways that you get embarrassed in public?

7. Are you ever bored? What type of people bore you?

8. What are good leisure activities that you would like for us to try together?

9. Are you okay with me dating others while we are in an arrangement?

10. What is your definition of emotional intimacy?

11. Where and when did you meet your wife/girlfriend? What drew you to her?

12. What sort of future financial plans and goals do you have?

13. What is your biggest goal in starting an arrangement?

14. Have you thought about the ramifications of your actions on your family, co-workers and friends?

15. Tell me what precautions you are going to take to ensure that our arrangement is kept private?

16. What you would do if we ran into someone either of us knew, while out together?

17. What would you want me to do?

18. What are the most important things in life? What do you value?

19. What questions would you like me to answer?

20. What are your bad/good habits?

21. What is your opinion of me being a different nationality or following different religious briefs than yours?

22. What would you do to leave a positive impression on our first date? And future dates?

23. What would your perfect arrangement consist of?

24. What is your opinion of us abstaining from sexual intimacy within our arrangement, even though I am not a virgin?

25. Can you explain to me how a Sugaring arrangement is different than a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?

26. Do you believe that its possible to have emotional intimacy without physical intimacy?

27. Do you still have feelings for an ex, wife, girlfriend or previous SB?

28. How long did your previous arrangement/relationship last?

29. Do you regret any of those intimate experiences with that person?

30. What are your expectations of intimacy and sexual relations with me? How do they differ from your previous SB etc.

31. Should I be fearful, jealous or envious of any of your previous arrangements, and the different opportunities that you have shared with them?

32. Do you usually follow your heart or your head?

33. What is your opinion about me hanging out with other Sugar Babies and their SD’s, or in places that SD’s frequent?

34. Do you think that someone’s past matters in a current arrangement?

35. How would you react if I told you that I can not meet your daily needs for communication?

36. Do you believe in privacy, even while being open with each other in an arrangement?

37. Do you have any opinions about me working a part time job? What if it takes my time away from you?

38. Do you have any hobbies that you’d like for us to share?

39. Have you ever experimented with legal/illegal drugs? Do you currently?

40. Do you have children? What do you think the impact would be on them if our arrangement was made public?

41. What communication methods do you prefer? What are the most private and effect modes?

42. What is something weird about you, or that you’re afraid to tell me?

43. Tell me something about your work, that isn’t common knowledge.

44. If your friends or co-workers don’t like me for some reason, is that a deal breaker?

45. Have you ever had a one night stand? If you did, do you regret it? Would you do it again if you knew you wouldn’t get caught?

46. How long would your ideal arrangement last?

47. Do you have a criminal record, or any contraction of diseases?

48. I don’t, but would it change your opinion of me if I had one?

49. Are you willing to lose time from your family and friends, in order to see me?

50. How did you discover Sugaring?

51. Do any of your friends have Sugar Babies?

52. What do you think about continuing the search for an Sd/SB, after you’ve recently started an arrangement with one?

53. Do you think love within an arrangement is possible?

54. If your job (or wife) started to have a negative impact on our arrangement, what would you do?

55. How do you handle feelings of jealousy or resentment?

56. Do you have any regrets in life or in past arrangements?

57. What is your ideal vacation/weekend get away?

58. Will we be taking any together?

59. What are your expectations of my free time and our time spent together?

60. If you are allowed to do just one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?

61. What are some things that you take pride in?

62. What is the most difficult component for you, in an arrangement?

63. What happens if we exchange pictures, and down the road decide not to continue our arrangement? How will they be used, shared, kept or destroyed?

64. Would you be ok with me making plans with my friends, on a night that you are free to see me?

65. Will you be OK with me hanging out with you and your friends?

66. If you could change something about females in general, what would it be?

67. What is your opinion on the arts? Do you want to visit museums and galleries together?

68. Do you read the newspaper? How do you stay up on current events?

69. What are you looking for in the long term and short term?

70. If you had three Sugaring rules, what would they be?

71. Which aspect to Sugaring scares you or makes you the most nervous?

72. Are you typically late to events and dates, or end up rescheduling at the last minute?

73. Who has been the most influential person for you so far in life?

74. What are some places that we will definitely need to avoid being seen together?

75. What are some places that we would be safe to visit/experience together?

76. What is the best advice you ever received?

77. What advice would you give to me, regarding Sugaring and life in general?

78. If you had a previous arrangement, why did it end?

79. Are you still friends with that person?

80. Without getting too personal, what were some good moments in that relationship?

81. What were some of the craziest things that you’ve done with her? And some of the sweetest?

82. What will you have accomplished at work one year from now and within our arrangement?

83. If you/we could go on a road trip where would you chose to go? Would I have a say or just be expected to come along on a whim?

84. Are you prepared to respect, and are you comfortable with accepting my school and study schedule?

85. Have you thought about using code names, or certain apps that will keep our communication/contact private?

86. Can you tell me 3 good points about me?

87. What are your expectations of me in our arrangement?

88. What happens if I can not agree or live up to all of them?

89. Have you ever wanted something really bad and then later, not so much? Do you get discouraged easily?

90. Is there anything I could do to make you think that I am an ungrateful or selfish person?

91. What would you do if our communication and dates were limited to set days and periods of times during the day/week/month?

92. Do you like to go window shopping, or are you the type who needs to buy an item?

93. After I had asked you for our first date, was there any part of you that wanted to say no? Why?

94. What are some activities or places, that you would like to do/go on for dates that you haven’t been before?

95. What are your views on open arrangements? Do you know what an open relationship is?

96. What are your future/5 year plans with your wife or girlfriend? Maybe more kids, more travelling etc. How can I help you to achieve this?

97. Is money more important to you or are the relationships you share with people more important?

98. What are some things that you are either passionate about, or anger you?

99. Do you believe that long distance arrangements can work? What about those that are not long in distance but long in the duration between dates?

100. What are your thoughts relating to Sugar Babies as Sex Workers?

This isn’t an end-all-be-all list, as it would go on and on forever…but rather just an idea to get the ball rolling.

Here, I’m going to outline the various types of cosmetic procedures available for sugar babies. After all, your appearance is your currency in this world. If you have questions about any of these procedures, don’t hesitate to let me know! I will make another post soon talking about the procedures I’ve personally undergone.

Face:

Double Eyelid Surgery - changes the monolid into a double eyelid, makes the eyes appear bigger, frequently used by Asians

Blepharoplasty - to change the shape of the eyes, very versatile e.g. can fix droopy eyes or sagging beneath eyes

Eyebrow Lift - tightens the forehead area. I have heard Bella Hadid has had this.

Nose job - obvious. Bella Hadid has DEFINITELY had this, lol.

Nose fillers - this can straighten out the profile of your nose, is known as the “non-surgical nose job”. Only works on some shapes so you’ll have to go in for a consultation.

Chin implant - if you have an overbite or a weak chin, this will improve your profile. Weak chins can make your face look fat.

Chin fillers - this is the non-surgical version. I have had this. It takes 5 minutes to inject the filler and it isn’t painful because they ice the area to make it numb. Make sure you get the dissolvable kind so if you aren’t happy with the look, you can dissolve the fillers.

Chin reduction - for those with too prominent of a chin/an underbite

Cheek fillers - for more defined cheekbones

Cheek implant - same thing, but permanent

Lip fillers - for that Kylie look

Botox - self-explanatory, but if you feel like your jaw is too square, you can inject Botox into the masseter muscles to freeze them, which shrinks them

Ultherapy/Thermage - tightens the skin, there are rumors Gigi Hadid had this to tighten up her saggy jowls

Facelift - self explanatory

Eyelash/eyebrow transplants - doctors take hair from the back of your head and transplant them to your lashes/brows. Bit extreme if you ask me, why not just get them micro bladed or lash extensions?

Body:

Cool sculpting - this is where they freeze the fat, killing it and then you pee it out. It is non surgical and lasts only an hour for each area. Claims to reduce fat by up to 25% by each time. They have different size applicators, on is small enough to do under your chin!

Cellfina - new anti cellulite treatment that is supposed to be very effective

Sculpsure - also nonsurgical fat reduction, I don’t know much about this, but I have heard it is quite effective!

Kybella - again non surgical, it’s an acid that dissolved fat. Typically used for under the chin but I’ve had it used off label in between my legs for a thigh gap.

Liposuction

Tummy Tuck

Brazilian Butt Lift

Butt implants - highly recommend BBL over implants because implants feel hard and not real

Boob job

Internal bra surgery - doctor inserts a silicon sheet between your breast tissue and your ribcage, and this contraption acts as a “bra cup.” This bra cup is sustained by silk threads which are tethered to the rib cage by titanium anchors. I believe you can only do this while getting a boob job/lift, sadly you can’t do it on its own which is unfortunate because my DD’s could use an internal bra.

Breast lift

Breast reduction

Nipple surgery - refining the look of the nipple if it is too big or constantly erect for example

Belly button surgery - just heard about this, apparently people are changing the shape of their belly buttons to look more like celebs and models like Emily ratajkowski! So crazy

ThermiVa - where they insert a laser emitting rod into your vagina that supposedly tightens it by increasing blood flow to the area. Only takes around 15 minutes

Vaginoplasty/labiaplasty - for those who are uncomfortable with the appearance or size of their vaginas

G-spot injection - exactly what it sounds like. An injection to your G spot that is supposed to increase pleasure

Foot padding surgery - want to dance in your Louboutins all night without feeling pain? Take fat from your stomach and inject fat into the balls of your feet!

Vocal Lift surgery - for those with husky voices either naturally or from smoking too much. Doctors plump up your vocal cords with fat or collagen, or they make an incision to bring your vocal cords closer together.

Some of these procedures are absolutely ridiculous, but if you feel you need it, then I think you should go for it. After years of deliberation, I finally went for a BBL (which I will talk about in another post) and I couldn’t be happier. I am so happy I did it and no longer feel insecure about my body. If you know of any procedures that I missed, feel free to comment! I will be updating as I hear of new innovations.

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