思想

Hmm. It's really easy to get angry at people. But harder to calm yourself down and ask them for a reason for their opinions and to withhold your anger until they fail to provide a sufficient reason for acting immature.

It's easy for me to blame myself? I'm not sure if this is the right thing to say because it sounds selfish, as if I'm never at fault. I know for sure that a lot of time I am at fault, haha. But I also think I take blame for a lot of things that aren't my fault. Well, I shouldn't assume that people are angry at me when they haven't communicated it to me properly. And even if they are, if I think that I didn't do anything wrong, or if I think they're making too big of a deal out of it, I shouldn't have to apologize for anything. I guess it doesn't mean that I won't feel bad about it or the fact that I had something to do with putting someone in a pissy mood. But confidence is important. Yet, arrogance is bad.

I general, I should stop inserting myself into things? Don't interact with people unless they interact with me? But I know that's not good either; that's basically antisocial. Hmm. Well, in general then, I should do what I want to do and voice my opinions without feeling apologetic. At the same time, I should respect other people's opinions.