We Have To Be As One

What’s one memory with a friend that you’re fond of?

Past relationships? How did they go? Do you still speak to each other?

In what ways has someone hurt you? Who?

Talk about a happy experience.

Talk about a traumatic experience.

Do you have any siblings? Family? What’s your relationship with them?

Talk about the last argument you’ve had with someone. What was it about? 

Do you have a job? What parts of it do you like/don’t like? What do you? 

Talk about the people you know at work. Do you like them? Do you hang out with them after work? 

Pick a scar/injury you have/had and talk about how you got it.

What do you look for in someone you wish to date? What do you find attractive? 

Name something that you like that you’re embarrassed about 

Who’s the last person you kissed? Is there anyone you’d like to kiss? 

What do you do to relax? 

Are you happy? 

Talk about one person you’ve met recently. 

Talk about one person that you haven’t spoken to in awhile. 

What your favorite color? Foods? Weathers/Seasons?

What did you do on your most recent birthday? 

At what age do you feel that you stopped being a child and “grew up”? 

Do you make friends easily? Talk about them for a little bit. 

What’s the last thing you’ve heard someone say about you behind your back? 

What’s your reputation with the people around you. Do they like you? Dislike you? Why? 

When’s the last time you got drunk? Do you remember what you did? Do you regret it? 

What habits/tics do you have? Do you annoy people with them? 

When was the last date you went on? How did it go? 

Are you an open person or are you closed off? 

What’s in your closet? 

What’s in your dresser/desk? 

What kind of soaps/shampoos/lotion scents do you use? Which ones do you not like? 

Do you like candles? How many do you have and what scents? 

On average how many hours of sleep do you get per day? Do you have problems sleeping or waking up? Has this affected your daily routine with other people/your job? 

When’s the last time you went on vacation? What did you do? 

When was the last time you were angry? What were you angry about? Did you get violent or pent it up? 

When was the last time you were happy? What caused it? 

When was the last time you were sick? What happened? How long did it take until you were better? 

Are you allergic to anything? 

What kind of music do you like? Do you like/not care letting people know what you listen to or do you have certain songs/bands/genres you keep secret out of embarrassment/fear? 

What brings you nostalgia? Why?

Talk about school. Did you go? What classes were you the strongest in? The weakest? Did you do any sports? Were you popular/loner? Bullied? A bully? College? What degree did you get? 

Can you swim? At what age did you learn if you did? Have you swam in the ocean/lake or just in a pool? The last time you did swim? 

What kind of holidays do you celebrate? Do you not? Do you celebrate with friends/family or alone? Which one is your favorite? 

Is there anything that you collect? Hobbies? Do you share with others what you do/make or is it not their business? 

What temperature do you keep your home at? Do you prefer it warm or cool? 

How many blankets do you sleep with? How big is your bed? How soft/firm is it? Can you sleep anywhere or under certain conditions? 

What kind of skills do you have? 

When was the last time you cried? What happened? 

What kind of drunk are you? Emotional? Angry? Clingy? Has this caused trouble for you? 

Do you believe in god(s)? Do you go to church or religious celebrations often?