Iâm gonna be emotional over dickwally for a second hear me out
One of the things I really love about Birdflash/DickWally is the idea that theyâre âThe Coupleâ. Theyâve been together since they were kids, they were best friends, and their relationship grew organically out of that. Despite any rough patches they no doubt had, theyâre the constant. They just go together. Theyâre the âCory and Topangaâ, a package deal. Theyâre the perfect example of a healthy, long relationship that their family and friends honestly admire.
Theyâre a gay couple, and itâs normalized.Â
Wally would have been around before most of the Batkids were brought into the picture. He would be just as much of an âolder brotherâ figure as Dick is. Itâs âyeah, thatâs my brother Dick and his boyfriend Wally, theyâre disgustingâ. Itâs not an uncommon thing to walk into the kitchen at the Manor and Wallyâs sitting at the counter eating a couple powerbars and downing a bottle of gatorade (Dick isnât even there, he just let himself in). Wally isnât always expected to be at Batfam meetings, but heâs usually there, and no one bats an eye (pun intended).
And itâs the same with Wallyâs family. Maybe his folks arenât the biggest fans of Dick, but you know that Iris and Barry have pretty much adopted him the same way they did Wally. Dick and Wally babysit the twins, and they just adore Dick because heâll take them to the park and show them tricks on the monkey bars. Dickâs there at every Thanksgiving, and Christmas, and summer barbeque.Â
Can you imagine what it would mean to a young hero whoâs just coming out of the closet to have that kind of role model in their life? Hereâs Nightwing and The Flash, acting as mentors to them. Theyâre not âthose gay superheroesâ, theyâre just Dick and Wally, and all these young heroes look up to them regardless of whether theyâre gay, straight, or somewhere in between, but it would mean that much more to a kid to see them and be able to think âWow, I could be like them someday. I donât have to sacrifice any part of myself.â And still, you know that when Dick is training the newbies, Wally sometimes zooms in to steal a kiss, and theyâre all making gagging noises in the background.Â
And when people ask them what their âsecretâ is, they both just sort of shrug and give the same answer. Theyâre best friends. They get along, they have fun, they love each other so deeply and passionately. When they have a fight, they cool down, and try to talk to out. Is it always easy? No, of course not, but theyâre not under any illusions that it should be easy all the time.Â
People tell them theyâre the best couple they know, and they just look at each other, grin, say âniiicccceâ, and fist bump.Â
I could go on for days, honestly, but Dick and Wally being the normalized âcoupleâ friends is the reason I get out of bed in the mornings.Â