what is with you people and using "power imbalances" as proof a certain kind of attraction can never be fulfilled? is my lover who is capable of holding down a job and takes care of me financially and physically abusing me just because there's a "power imbalance?" can you actually think about the words youre saying, please?
like, yes, they COULD hold the money over my head and make me do things i dont want to do under the threat that i wont be taken care of anymore. yes, i suppose that could happen.
but is it??????????????
there are other arguments you can make. power imbalance is not one of them.











