While in a dynamic, it may be ideal to go 24/7 with it, but that isn't always possible given our situations and lives. In order to keep a serious dynamic alive, you must dedicate 24/7 periods at least. You have to say that from this day to this day, we are going to do this seriously.. no if, ands, or buts (except diaper butts). You have to dedicate a weekend to being fully committed to your dynamic. 3 day stretches, a week at a time, etc, without falling out of your roles. You might not always want to do it. She may not want to wear diapers today, you might be tired from work and don't want to take care of her.. but if you don't dedicate a few days at a time to being serious about it, your relationship and dynamic will start coming apart. You'll start making more and more exceptions and excuses until you don't even have a dynamic anymore. It must be done for consecutive back to back day periods at the minimum to keep it going. Even if it's just from Friday to Sunday sometimes, it keeps it alive. There's something about doing it all day, going to bed, then waking up knowing that it's still on that really entrenches you in it. A lot of us with lives and jobs might only dedicate nights to doing it, but when you wake up in the morning and have to go to work, real life kicks in and you get entirely knocked out of that mode. If you want to make it work, and want more than just casual playdates, you need to free up your schedule and dedicate some multiple day long periods to doing it.
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