art uhh

There's a difference between a man who is immature and buys into misogynistic views of beauty and aging and one who is a predator. Also, many actual predators? Not losers and able to move through society pretty freely being seen as cool and the ideal, so conflating the two isn't helpful.

if a 40 year old dude only dates 25 year olds, DiCaprio style or something adjacent to it, then yeah he's a loser

if a 40 year old dude meets a 25 year old through social event or friends or whatever and they happen to hit it off and make a go of it, and this isn't some sort of reoccurring pattern for the guy, that's just a relationship with an age difference

being predatory means something specific, and man I agree w/ OP and really wish people just stopped ascribing it to any and all relationship dynamics they personally might not like

reblog if youre older than ao3

Head canons/drawings for my first save of cotl i may be silly possibly goofy, this is technically unfinished so I might fix it and post later idk maybe not lol lmao

I like to believe my lamb does everything for the sole reason of “it’d be funny”. Anyway here’s some other random facts/headcanons about the save file yay:

-my cult is named deez nuts and everybody’s name is a deez nuts joke because I am incredibly immature

-the only exception to this is eggs hatched in the cult, who are named like gumball episodes (e.g. “the birth” “the gamer” “the seal”)

-if I remember correctly I think I married narinder after I got leshy so I like to imagine he was invited to the wedding as the flower girl

-I lied the other exception to the naming rule was my first follower who was named M’lady because I thought it was funny

-narinder has reading glasses because he is a cat meow meows

-I’d like to think both my lamb and narinder solely refer to each other as wife (mainly for the “I miss my wife tails… I miss her a lot..” joke)