A letter to the fans that think the show is horrible now because of the implications about Pearl and Roseâs relationship
Even if your worst fears about Rose and Pearlâs relationship were true, and Pearl was essentially a slave, with exactly as little agency as Blue and Yellow Pearl, even for the thousands of years she was with Rose after the war ended, her entire character arc up through and including âMr. Gregâ and âLast One Out of Beach Cityâ was about her learning to have agency and truly be an independent gem now that Rose is gone.
In âSworn to the Sword,â we saw her realize that the way she had devalued her own life for Roseâs sake was an unhealthy relationship dynamic. In âFriend Shipâ we saw her learning that she shouldnât use her status as a pearl as an excuse to just give up and that she does have control over her own destiny. In âMr. Greg,â she openly expresses a desire to finally âmove onâ from Rose, and âLast One Out of Beach City,â she shows that she has.Â
And, THE SHOWâS NOT OVER.
More to come in future episodesâŚ
More on this in future episodes!
We still have yet to see how Pearl will change in response to her secret becoming public knowledge. In âSworn to the Swordâ we saw Pearl learn through Steven and Connie that the way she had been devaluing her own life was unhealthy. Now that Pearl will be able to discuss the true nature of her relationship with Steven, and Garnet (who has very strong feelings about how love and relationships should work) sheâll finally be able to get a fresh pair (or trio) of eyes on her relationship. I very much doubt the coming episodes are going to contextualize Pearl and Roseâs relationship as a perfect fairy-tale romance.
I donât understand why you guys are so convinced that this relationship is going to be handled in the worst possible way. Itâs not like the crewniverse just came up with the ideas for how diamonds and pearls work and then, just this Monday, decided to put Rose and Pearl in those roles without realizing the implications of it.
âWhen you see a lot of media for kids, especially media directed at little girls, itâs very heavy with the message that, âYou will find another person who will validate you, and being in a relationship will make you know that youâre a worthwhile person.â And Pearl is an exploration in what a terrible message that is, and how it can just ruin someone completely⌠She feels like all of her worth is tied to her relationship with someone else, and without that someone else her worth is zero.âÂ
- Rebecca Sugar, Official âSteven Universeâ podcast, Vol 2, Ep 4: âPearl
Of course her servant mentality played a role in her allegiance to Rose, how could it not.
This was the plan since before âGem Glowâ aired. And weâve seen this show do a good job (I think) of tackling issues like toxic, abusive relationships (Malachite), and bad allyism (Rocknoldo) before, and I donât think weâre going to see it stumble across the finish line now.
I hope youâll all keep watching. You might just be pleasantly surprised.