simps for bang chan

if you’re under 14 (any age really but ESPECIALLY THEM) and you’re a kpop fan, PLEASE (for the sake of god) go offline and enjoy yourself. come on wattpad to make your sappy fluff fanfics about your bias, or draw a pretty picture of your bias group making out with each other. go party in your room whilst listening to faves or fantasise about making out with your bias.

this generation really needs to know that it’s ok to be cringy. you was young at the time and you so happened to grow up to acknowledge your actions. it’s a part of growing up. don’t think you have to fit in with the good twitter stans crowd to make your fandom look good in any capacity. just enjoy your group, don’t worry about the streams and be yourself. the only thing i’d ask you is to not harass anyone for having a different opinion as you and especially don’t harass kpop idols. other than that, go wild! you may have cringy memories, but at least you’re having fun rather than trying to fit in with the “mature” crowd. plus, you’re only young once and that “mature” brain of yours will come whenever you’re ready. it could be when you turn 16, 18, 21 or even 25. humans are just like flowers. each one of them blooms at different rates and at different times.

if you do want to have the mature outlook and you’re under 14, then that’s totally fine. i’m just here to say that it’s also ok if you want to be your age and have fun without having to be too restricted. you’re totally within your own right to choose what you want to do and you don’t need to listen to me if you don’t want to. i’m just here to say that we need to start normalising pre-teens being pre-teens and teens being teens. you’re allowed to experiment with kpop idols you like, just as long as you’re not crossing the line by harassing them or anyone else such as fans and non-fans.

it’s sad seeing both spectrums of child fans saying those disgusting stuff on twitter and also those mature kids (that are around 11-14) becoming aware that they will never see their idols. if it wasn’t for what happened, i would of STILL thought about marrying jonghyun today. even when i was as old as 13, i was at my horniest. i remember seeing videos of me literally talking about how i wanted to have sex with him and even until this day i cringe whenever i see them.

i remember seeing this 13/14 year old girl on youtube talking about real issues like body positivity and stuff like that and importing her own opinions on it and what makes me sad is that the comment section basically has this standard that all kids her age should think the same way when really not everyone can. when i was 13, i was thinking about making out with my bias, not talking about the issues of kpop to a wide audience.

pledis_17: 20230406 Happy MINGYU’s Day🐶

i never said that i don’t like black women. i was saying that there’s a pattern of black women resources being advertised more than anything else. this ISN’T me dogpiling on black mental health. i was pointing at what i see the most. i am NOT american so i don’t know if there’s anything out there as the uk doesn’t really provide very much for anyone of my demographic specifically.

as for my argument against the “black girl breathing” ads, this was in behalf of my FRIEND who has seen the poster saying “being lonely in a digital world” making him think that it was a BLACK WOMAN or a group of people speaking out about feeling lonely being online as THIS WAS EXACTLY WHAT HE WAS GOING THROUGH just for him to find out that it was a resource ad for black women and girls.