we need to normalize a tradition where nonpartnering aros are like "hey, i'm officially never getting married, please come to this party and give me whatever kitchenware you would have bought me for a wedding"
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we need to normalize a tradition where nonpartnering aros are like "hey, i'm officially never getting married, please come to this party and give me whatever kitchenware you would have bought me for a wedding"

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This is actually my favourite performance of 'Hej du Människa' (from last year).
Peak vocals and laid-back confidence from Kevin! <3 <3 <3
firmans man
eveybody be nice to him it's his first day
*edit: WHY DOES EVERYONE WANT TO STEAL HIM ??*
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said to pick the youngest one in the group
is it that easy?
bday gift 4 myself ^_^........
Hey guys. Please be careful because some person on this app tried to scam me by sending this. I apologize for disturbing you, but I must talk to you immediately. I can't share it here, so please get in touch with me. I can't get in touch with you directly because of a keep error. I searched up what it means on google and it's that when they get in touch with you they'll send you malicious links. Google said this. This message is a classic red flag for a scam or phishing attempt.Here is exactly what it means and why you should be careful:The Tactic: Scammers use urgent, mysterious language to panic you into acting quickly. By claiming they have a "critical" or "secret" issue, they hope your curiosity or fear will make you lower your guard.The "Keep Error": This is a made-up, nonsensical excuse. Scammers invent fake technical glitches (like a "keep error") to explain why they can't message you normally and to force you onto an external platform (like WhatsApp, Telegram, or email).The Goal: Once you contact them privately, they will likely try to steal your money, trick you into giving up personal information (passwords, banking details), or send you malicious links. Be careful!!
‘oh yay!! someone commented on my post!!’ i think to myself. i proceed to get hit with the ‘I apologize for disturbing you, but I must talk to you immediately. I can't share it here, so please get in touch with me. I can't get in touch with you directly because of a keep error.’
Update: 'I accidentally reported your account'
I was notified by a user that the scammers are now changing their comment copy/pasta script up and aren't using the "I have something important to tell you it’s about to your account, but i can’t message you idk whyy??" line anymore and are instead using this one.
Text version of this image:
I apologize for disturbing you, but I must talk to you immediately. I can't hare it here, so please get in touch with me. I can't get in touch with you directly because of a keep error.
Wtf is a "keep error", that's... not even a real thing..? lol
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Botnia Paradise Flower Headcanons
Dan-Ole's flower is blåeld, "blueweed" in English. The Swedish name translates to "blue fire", which I find rather poetic - blue not being a colour that tends to get associated with fires. Like Bertel's flower gulsporre/toadflax, the blueweed often grows by the side of roads. Although it's not the smallest of flowers, it still has a kind of restrained modest vibe in my eyes, though I don't think I managed to capture that. But when you look at it closely, it's very lovely. First unassuming and "by the wayside", but with a hidden fire inside - that sounds a lot like Dan-Ole. Eva-Lisa's flower is kråkvicker, known as "cow vetch" or "bird vetch" in English. Apparently, both vetch and vicker refer to the genus Vicia, but you'd need to be a botanist to know that. I just think the name sounds quirky and funny (kråkameans 'crow'). This is yet one more flower that grows well on dry soil, including beaches. The shape of the flower is unusual too (but was hard for me to capture). It has always given me vibes of something capable but dorky, so it feels perfec for Eva-Lisa. The bird reference is just a bonus! Though Dan-Ole and Eva-Lisa don't seem entirely sure of one another yet in this double snapshot, the attraction is clear - and each of them is already holding the other's flower. <3
Ingmar Bergman on the delight of making The Magic Flute
The Magic Flute (Ingmar Bergman, 1975)
The Magic Flute (Ingmar Bergman, 1975)
Cast: Josef Köstlinger, Irma Urrila, Håkan Hagegård, Ulrik Cold, Birgit Nordin, Ragnar Ulfung, Britt-Marie Aruhn, Kirsten Vaupel, Birgitta Smiding, Erik Sædén. Screenplay: Ingmar Bergman, based on an opera by Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and the libretto by Emanuel Schikaneder translated by Alf Henrikson. Cinematography: Sven Nykvist. Production design: Henny Noremark. Film editing: Siv Lundgren. Costume design: Karin Erskine, Henny Noremark. Ingmar Bergman’s The Magic Flute is a kind of linguistic palimpsest, with the English subtitles* superimposed on the Swedish translation of the German original. I don't know Swedish, but I’ve picked up enough of the sound of the language from watching movies that I can recognize a word or two. But I do know the German libretto fairly well from following along on recordings, so that when a singer begins a familiar aria, I hear the German in my mind’s ear along with the Swedish being sung and then refracted through the English words on screen. You’d think this would be distracting, but it isn’t – in fact, it only helps me appreciate the care Bergman took in making the film. Opera is not designed for the movies: It has moments of tightly choreographed action after which people usually stand still to sing, and you want more out of a movie than starts and stops. But what Bergman does so brilliantly is to supply close-ups and cuts that give the film an energy, often following the rhythms of Mozart’s music. We don’t get close-ups in the opera house – thank god, because singing opera does unfortunate things to the singers’ faces – but Bergman has wisely chosen good-looking singers and had them speak-sing along with a previously recorded version, so there’s little facial distortion. The Magic Flute is a problematic opera: Emanuel Schikaneder’s libretto is a mess that never quite resolves the relationship between Sarastro, the Queen of the Night, and Pamina. Bergman solves this by creating one: In his version, Pamina (Irma Urrila) is the daughter of Sarastro (Ulrik Cold) and the Queen (Birgit Nordin), and he has abducted the girl because he doesn’t trust his ex to raise her right. There’s no justification for this in Schikaneder’s text, and even Bergman hasn’t quite resolved the problem of why Sarastro lets Pamina be guarded by Monastatos (Ragnar Ulfung), whose chief aim seems to be to sleep with the young woman. Nor has Bergman solved the misogyny and racism of Schikaneder’s libretto. Women come in for a good deal of disapproval in the opera, and Bergman hasn’t eliminated that. Monastatos is tormented by the fact that he’s black – a Moor – although he is given a kind of Shylockian moment of self-justification, and even Papageno (Håkan Hagegård), who is the pragmatic, commonsense type, reflects that there are black birds, so why not black people. Most productions today gloss over these antique prejudices as best they can, however, turning The Magic Flute into a kind of fairy tale for the kids, with colorful sets and cute forest animals dancing to Tamino’s flute. Bergman is no exception in this regard: The film is set in the theater, and he opens with a close-up of a lovely young girl** with a kind of Mona Lisa smile, and follows her eye line as she gazes at the images painted on the curtain, then scans the other faces in the audience, old and young and of various ethnicities. The film, which like his other childhood-centered classic, Fanny and Alexander (1982), was made originally for television, is certainly one of Bergman’s warmest.
*I don’t know who did the English version, but it’s a very good singing translation, not just a literal prose version of the original. **She has been identified as Helene Friberg, who had bit parts in other Bergman films.
Photo via KAJ-FAN on YouTube <3
She did her hair in a pompadour. Pompadours had long gone out of fashion, but they had been in when Valancy first put her hair up and Aunt Wellington had decided that she must always wear her hair so.
Aunt Isabel had decreed that Valancy should never wear colours. They did not become her. When she was young they allowed her to wear white, but that had been tacitly dropped for some years.
While we're tracking the parenting skills of Amelia Stirling, née Wansbarra, I do find it very interesting that these two decrees to curb Valancy's autonomy are from aunts--not her mother. Her mother who, perhaps, might have the authority to disagree or pass her own decrees on Valancy's appearance once she grows older.
Which makes me think that so much of Amelia's bad parenting, while certainly to do with the fact that she's a horrible person, also perhaps comes down to a desire not to contradict the Stirlings, to let them judge and henpeck her daughter, in an effort to fit in, be accepted, and not rock the boat.
Because at the end of the day, she hates that Valancy isn't pretty or a boy because of how that reflects on her! At the end of the day, it all comes down to her own self-conception!
Even Mrs. Frederick gave a dinner party on her wedding anniversary and Cousin Stickles had friends in to supper on her birthday.
This line I'm also going to point out, because since Christine is a Stirling, her birthday--that is, her own holiday--is celebrated, whereas Amelia only gets to celebrate her entrance into the Stirling clan!

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Blue Castle Book Club: Chapter 8
“It is not ladylike to have feelings.” I feel like I could write a whole essay about this short, simple sentence—if I could just stop having flashbacks to having that levelled at me by society at large my entire childhood. Although, to be entirely fair, I don’t think they thought it was particularly gentlemanly to have feelings either. Western society, I think, punishes both men and women for having feelings, just in different ways. Is it the Protestantism? Or capitalism? Or some third -ism I’m forgetting? Whatever it is, I am so thankful to have been born my mother’s daughter. She has always been my emotional oasis—even before she went back to school to become a therapist. So, anyone out there, if no one has ever told you that you are allowed to have feelings, I’m telling you. I know it isn’t always that simple, and I wish I had more wisdom to share—but I just want you to know that.
Okay, back to the story. Valancy’s mother is disappointed that she wasn’t born a boy. This is very interesting in the aftermath of recent discussion of how things would have been different if she had.
Reading about all the things Olive took from Valancy has me wondering what it was like in her head. I feel like, despite having everything, she couldn’t really have been a very happy person, if she couldn’t let Valancy have anything.
“Despair is a free man—hope is a slave.” I wonder where that quote comes from. It’s interesting that that frame of mind actually works for Valancy. I’ve always found despair to be more binding than anything. At the same time, I can see the freedom in having lived so long in fear that the worst would happen, and then once it happens, not having to be afraid of it anymore. I would probably say that fear, rather than hope, is a slave. Do I sound like John Foster? Well, we all agree that he’s a wise man.