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What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger? The sky is still blue Seventeen years ago, life introduced me to fire. At first, I thought the flames had come to destroy me. I spent years trying to escape them, trying to understand why they found me, wondering if one day they would finally stop burning. Then something unexpected happened. I stopped running. I turned around and…

Hit 5,000 steps today and drop your achievement here — we’re cheering you on! The red lioness There comes a moment in life when you stop asking, “Why are people like this?” and begin asking, “Why did I expect them to be anything else?” Am I selfish for believing that, in the end, everyone is for themselves? Perhaps not. Perhaps I have simply lived long enough to witness the silent…

What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts? I am not my enemy Life is the greatest university you will ever attend. There is no graduation ceremony, no perfect score, and no shortcut to wisdom. Every heartbreak, betrayal, disappointment, and victory is a lesson. The real question is not what life does to you—it’s how you respond to it. Negative thoughts do not appear out of nowhere.…

Which languages do you speak and how did that impact your life? Which languages do you speak and how did that impact your life? Red lioness savage It seems like a simple question, yet behind it lies a world of culture, identity, history, and human connection. I am fortunate enough to speak several South African languages. Each one carries its own rhythm, wisdom, and personality. From province…

What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you? Walk your road. That is the advice…!! Not every road is crowded with friends, applause, love, validation, or people cheering your name. Some roads are silent. Some roads are lonely. Some roads will make you question whether you are moving forward at all. Walk them anyway. The greatest mistake young people make is believing they…

Who are you most inspired by? The red lioness Tonight, I sit alone in my bedroom, the world locked safely outside my door. A pen rests in my hand while memories flood the pages before me. The trials. The tribulations. The pain I never thought I would survive. I find myself revisiting the roads I once walked barefoot, roads paved with betrayal, disappointment, loneliness, and silent tears. The…

What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? I am my own happiness One of the biggest misconceptions about happiness is that it must come from somewhere outside of us. We are told that happiness arrives when someone finally loves us. When we find the perfect relationship. When we have children. When we become popular. When our social media followers multiply. When our lives look…

What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours? Dzimu Africa dzonga After three months away from blogging, there is no better way for me to return than by celebrating something that has always filled my heart with pride—my beautiful country, South Africa. South Africa is often called the Rainbow Nation, and nowhere is that diversity more visible than in our…

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How do you unwind after a demanding day? As you grow older, you start to realize that not everyone deserves a second or third chance. Some people just want to use you as a plaything to boost their own ego. It’s important to smile every day and remember that not everyone is worthy of a spot at your table, no matter who they are. Whether it’s a family member, a childish boyfriend, or an ex-friend,…

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What’s something most people don’t understand? Sometimes, people leave our lives without explanation. No final words. No closure. No goodbye. At first, it feels like a betrayal, a sudden emptiness that shakes you to your core. But over time, I’ve learned that pain in these moments is not meant to break us — it’s a teacher.Pain forces introspection. It asks the questions we might otherwise avoid:…

You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike? People will come wearing different faces.Different tones. Different intentions.I see them.But I no longer try to understand everything I see.That was never my assignment.I am not here to decode every human.I am here to remain true to myself.Some people carry chaos like it’s normal.Some people speak in ways that don’t match…

What is one word that describes you? Stay true to yourself.No matter where you are, your roots must remain authentic.You carry many lives within you.Each version of you survived something — honor every story.Let people be who they choose to be.Do not try to change them. Do not carry them.Do not wear energy that is not yours.Observe. Don’t absorb.Do not waste time proving yourself.Those who…

What tattoo do you want and where would you put it? For years, I suffered in silence. Not because I wanted to—but because I didn’t have the words to explain what was happening to me. My body felt heavy, tired, and unfamiliar. Every day felt like a struggle just to function, to think clearly, to exist normally. I kept going from doctor to doctor, hoping someone would finally understand. Hoping…

Hoteltransvania Lord of the rings Any vicking shows count me in What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times? Lately, I’ve found myself totally hooked on those TikTok drama shows that have the same storyline but different actors. I can’t help but complain, scream, and read all the comments, yet I still binge-watch from the very first episode to the last. And let’s not forget…