Real Change Hypnotherapy

He came to me completely overwhelmed. His heart was shattered in the middle of a separation with his wife, a woman he still deeply loved, despite knowing their marriage was over.

He was very emotional all the time, finding it hard to function in daily life.

During our first session, using 5-PATH hypnotherapy, we discovered that his unbearable pain wasn’t only about the separation itself. It was connected to an old event from long ago – an event he had never truly processed. Today’s situation only reopened that wound, making everything feel ten times heavier.

We worked together to identify and release those old emotions first, so he could create space within himself to process what was happening now. We built clear emotional boundaries towards his ex-partner, so he could communicate without being constantly triggered and overwhelmed. We released all his negative emotions towards her, allowing him to see everything that happened in a very different light.

Session by session, he became stronger. He cried much less , and when he did, it wasn’t out of helplessness but from finally accessing and releasing the deeper feelings trapped inside. The communication between them improved because he was no longer reacting out of hurt. He became calmer. He started seeing a future for himself – something he couldn’t even consider before.

He felt normal again. He had his life back in his hands.

It took us only four sessions, over four weeks. His progress was dramatic. It’s not always that quick for everyone – sometimes it takes six or eight hypnotherapy sessions. However, even then, it is still significantly faster and more in-depth than trying to do it all on your own.

Some people never truly recover from a breakup. And that makes me sad, because it’s like a waste of life. There is always life beyond the person who hurt us. We need to learn that we are more important to ourselves than the hurt others caused us.

Sometimes, reaching that realisation deeply enough to accept it is not something you can achieve alone.

If you’re going through something similar, I am here. You don’t have to stay stuck in this pain. Healing with hypnosis is possible.

In the world of today, when Western medicine took over long time ago, where we have pills for everything it’s difficult to see illnesses and symptoms as something other than just the disease or broken body.

For those, who like to go a little deeper, beyond “the normal”, beyond what we hear from a doctor, it is what children’s issues are really coming from. The child’s physical or emotional symptoms are rarely just “theirs.” They can often be seen as messages—reflections of unresolved emotional wounds in the family system, especially within the parents. Children always want to save parents, so if parent suffer quietly - the child will take it on and will show through the symptoms or behaviours.

Parents’ psychological conflicts become biological conflict of their child.

Sometimes, a child’s anxiety, skin issue, tummy aches, or behavioural challenges are not problems to be fixed... but solutions their subconscious mind has created to help the family process something unspoken, suppressed, or unresolved.

A child may carry a parent’s fear they never voiced.

A child may express anger that a parent had to suppress to survive.

A child might even slow down (through illness or learning difficulties) to keep a parent emotionally present.

This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness and compassion. When we, as adults, gently explore our own past wounds, traumas, and emotional patterns, we often find that healing ourselves becomes the key to helping our children thrive.

To make it easier to understand:

When we have an anxious child, or a child who doesn't behave, we try to seek help for the child itself. The truth is we must look at ourselves and what is unresolved within us first. We want to start with the child, while we should start with ourselves. To work on our silent, hidden fears, grudges, quilt, sadness or anger, so they don’t have to sense any of that anymore. 

✨ Children don’t need perfection. They need us to be honest with ourselves. To feel. To heal. To grow. 💛 When the parent heals, the child is often free to stop carrying the burden. They can stop saving the parent, they can be free.

If your child is struggling, look at the symptom, take a moment to ask with love:

“How is this symptom the solution to my unresolved trauma?”

“What is my child behaviour trying to tell and show me?”

“What in me needs to be seen, felt, and healed?”

There is always an answer, we just need to be open to find it.

As a hypnotherapist working deeply with the subconscious mind, I often witness that Children’s symptoms are not always theirs to carry. They are often messengers, expressing what is unresolved within the family—especially within the parents.

💛 This is the work I do—with deep care and respect for your story. Together, we can explore how healing your inner world may create real change in your child’s outer world.

Dressing or covering up the wounds will not ever heal them.

A sudden arousal of random symptoms we have never experienced before is a sign from your body to get your attention. More often than not, it is a trauma rooted in the body— the moment of paralysis and inability to take action that results from the "freeze response."

Age regression is a very powerful tool. It is a therapeutic technique used in hypnotherapy to help individuals revisit and explore past memories and experiences, often from their childhood or earlier stages of life. The purpose is to gain insight into the root causes of all sorts of issues like lack of confidence, anxiety, phobia, or challenges they may be facing in their present lives, like addictions, feeling overwhelmed, or holding on to grief. 

The goals of age regression hypnosis include:

Identifying Root Causes: By revisiting past experiences, the individual may uncover the underlying causes of certain behaviors, emotions, or challenges they are currently facing.

Healing Trauma: Age regression can be used to address and heal emotional wounds or traumas from the past. It provides an opportunity for the person to reprocess and release negative emotions associated with those events.